Does sex have to be naughty to be fun?

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Does sex have to be naughty to be fun?
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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 10:52am

Does sex have to be naughty to be fun?

Does sex have to be taboo-breaking to be hot? And now that just about every taboo has been broken, have people under 40 lost interest?

In essay by Erica Jong in the Sunday New York Times, "Is Sex Passé?", the “Fear of Flying” author frets, "…everywhere there are signs that sex has lost its frisson of freedom. Is sex less piquant when it is not forbidden? Sex itself may not be dead, but it seems sexual passion is on life support."

The essay’s churned up plenty of backlash to her sex backlash theory, with Jezebel writer Erin Gloria Ryan accusing Jong of focusing on

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 11:34am

No, but it helps

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 12:21pm
Does sex have to be taboo-breaking to be hot?

No. Also, Something is normal in my perspective that considered taboo.

And now that just about every taboo has been broken, have people under 40 lost interest? No. I think that there is more sense to safe sex to caution.

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 12:51pm

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 1:03pm
I am just now, in my late 30's, getting to enjoy some of the more exciting normal things. I'm hoping to enjoy some mild taboos. I find normal sex naughty and hot and I doubt that changes.

But I enjoy pleasing my partner. That never gets old. I do think some folks are in for themselves first, or are looking to gain primary satisfaction from the act all the time, and at some point, you can peak out. No bigger valleys to jump, or buildings to bungee from, etc..

I also think the news tends to blow this stuff out of proportion. Lots of folks, nay most of the world propulation, doesn't have the time or the money to get tired of sex. in fact, its the best free entertainment there is :)

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 1:29pm

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 2:01pm

Does sex have to be naughty to be fun? Of course not. Besides the definition is so different for everyone, that I don't think it ever will be. People will always come up with other things to explore and play with. Hey, as long as two consenting adults are having fun and exploring together, as far as I'm concerned, they'll never lose interest.



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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 2:04pm
kilroy1964 wrote:

well sex is always laughingly



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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 2:26pm
kilroy1964 wrote:

well sex is always laughingly

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 2:34pm

But I enjoy pleasing my partner. That never gets old. I do think some folks are in for themselves first, or are looking to gain primary satisfaction from the act all the time, and at some point, you can peak out. No bigger valleys to jump, or buildings to bungee from, etc..

The older I get (and the more boards I read lol) I've learned just how important it is to men to please their partner, and that they get just as much satisfaction from making their SO happy as they do pleasing themselves.

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Wed, 07-13-2011 - 8:24pm

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