Enough Sex

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Registered: 01-19-2013
Enough Sex
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Sun, 01-20-2013 - 10:30am

How many of you are having enough sex with your partner?

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Registered: 04-10-2012
Mon, 01-28-2013 - 8:51am
How often is enough? I have found that my sex drive is higher than my husbands. It makes me feel really shameful. What is wrong with me? Why doesn't he want me more?
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Registered: 01-03-2007
In reply to: amante21
Mon, 01-28-2013 - 9:56am

NOTHING is wrong with you!!

Mismatched libidos are a common problem.......tell me a little bit more about your situation....

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Registered: 07-23-2012
In reply to: cmthia
Mon, 01-28-2013 - 1:16pm

1010faustina,

You should check out some threads here, in our mismatched libidos area.  You are not alone.

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Registered: 08-08-2012
Mon, 01-28-2013 - 1:21pm

Faustina,

My husband is always ready at the drop of a hat and I am not. I don't think you should feel shameful - I know when I am ready I just let him know.

Have you told him how you feel? My hubby knows I love him and he is my other half, but I would want no other. It isn't that I don't want him more, I just don't want it as much as he does lol. He knows I am more of a low libido to his high libido and we are happy with each other :)

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Registered: 09-12-2011
Mon, 01-28-2013 - 1:41pm

hey thanks, 

we have on an average week sun thru sun 15 times 

i would think that means enough lol

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Registered: 09-12-2011
Mon, 01-28-2013 - 1:41pm

hey thanks, 

we have on an average week sun thru sun 15 times 

i would think that means enough lol

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Registered: 01-19-2011
Tue, 02-05-2013 - 8:29am

I'm 46 now and I've always had a huge appetite for sex.  Seven years ago my husband brought up the idea of trying an open marriage.  With two sex partners, I'm getting enough.

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Registered: 10-11-2011
Thu, 02-07-2013 - 3:38pm
10 times a week on average hes always horny, and still arouses me. kudos to me i guess (;
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Registered: 07-20-2001
Sun, 02-10-2013 - 7:52pm
  1. For sure not enough. Although, I am very sexual and would just like to have it more. What can I say I enjoy sex. Must have more! lol.
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Registered: 11-08-2004
Mon, 02-11-2013 - 12:44am

How many times is considered as enough for those who said they had enough sex? How to decided whether the number ofsex is enough or not?