Enough Sex

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Registered: 01-19-2013
Enough Sex
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Sun, 01-20-2013 - 10:30am

How many of you are having enough sex with your partner?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2007
Mon, 01-21-2013 - 10:15am

I am, but mine is a quality issue, not a quantity one.

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Registered: 08-08-2012
Tue, 01-22-2013 - 11:31pm

Menopause is messing with my quantity, but nothing can take away from the quality :D

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Registered: 01-19-2013
Wed, 01-23-2013 - 8:51pm

Well what is it lacking quality in. Can it be fixed?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-19-2013
Wed, 01-23-2013 - 8:53pm

Not sure how you feel about medications but I heard woman are being given viagra now too when the hormones are getting in the way of your sex life.  Have you tried anything like that?

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Registered: 08-08-2012
Wed, 01-23-2013 - 9:18pm

Shadelady,

Haven't thought about taking any medications as I know this will pass. My hubby is very understanding and I do adore him for that.

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Registered: 01-19-2013
Wed, 01-23-2013 - 9:30pm

Well you got a great man.  Have you tried useing some of that cooling lube.  My man and I use that and its awesome.  I am getting older and things get dry faster but with that lube I don't wanna stop. lol

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Registered: 01-19-2013
Wed, 01-23-2013 - 9:36pm

We love the Wet Synergy Cool Tingle lube.  Gotta try it.  http://www.forladiesoffiftyshades.com/best_sellers.php?a=50ShadesToys&cid=528&showdvds=0

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Registered: 01-03-2007
In reply to: amante21
Thu, 01-24-2013 - 10:03am

It is a variety of issues, from antidepressants to having a 7 and 9 year old and not having very much privacy to her ongoing issues with things that have happened in the past, mostly high school, that she refuses to acknowledge are issues. We've been to a counselor, it really helped in a lot of areas, but when we got to sex, she got mad and we haven't been back since. 

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Registered: 08-08-2012
Thu, 01-24-2013 - 6:23pm

Shadelady thanks for the link I will check into it :D

Amante - those sound like tough issues to get around and if she won't work with you it makes it that much more difficult. I am happy to say our youngest is almost 10 and though we have had children around us most of our marriage, we have found ways to have private time together. It is just this menopause that is kicking us at the moment. But as I said, having a wonderful understanding husband around makes my life, and menopause, much easier to deal with.

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Registered: 01-21-2013
Sat, 01-26-2013 - 10:40am

WinkI would love more. ALL the time! LOL

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