Escort Service Anyone

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Registered: 06-16-2008
Escort Service Anyone
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 9:27am
Has anyone ever had that fantasy about being with a total stranger? For some reason lately I have been totally turned on by the idea of getting a female escort for my next business trip. The thought of this beautiful woman that doesn't know me waiting for me and doing all of the things I only dream about is driving me crazy. Has anyone given in to this idea and can give me any advice or suggestions. I am 27 years old and married to a woman that has a VERY low sex drive and I am trying to work through that with her but I just can't help to think about meeting a beautiful woman for a few hours at my hotel, go to the hot tub, fool around there and then take her back to my room, give each other massages and go from there. I REALLY want to do this, do women have the same fantasy only with a guy? I will be traveling internationally so there will be a language barrier which makes this even better... Am I losing my mind?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 07-07-2008 - 10:27am

Hi and welcome ski19080. It's nice to meet you. Stick around and jump in anytime. The people here are great!


As for your question... I don't think you're losing your mind, but it's not something I have ever fantasized about. I couldn't meet with a perfect stranger like that.

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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 10:35am

Thanks for the welcoming... I have been reading around and have made a few postings, seems like a great group of people.


I don't get it either, I have never had a one night stand and have been in great relationships in the past. I suppose it could be the unfortunate lack of passion in my life that is causing this....


I look forward to meeting everyone here...

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 07-07-2008 - 11:11am

I suppose it could be the unfortunate lack of passion in my life that is causing this....


I'm sure of that. Have you tried talking to your wife about this? Does she have medical conditions? Is she on birth control pills?

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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 11:26am

We have talked about it and she just went off of her birth control about two weeks ago so I am very anxious to see if this works. We have a great relationship outside the bedroom, actually better than I had ever thought possible however it is so difficult for me being HL and her being LL.


Thanks again for your comments... Any and all advice is welcomed!

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Mon, 07-07-2008 - 4:40pm
Stranger sex is
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 5:31pm
We didn't have sex until after we were married per her request, he really do have an excellent relationship, I have so much fun with her, it is only in the bedroom. At first I thought I would just deal with it but it is getting harder and harder. I have heard people that have their marriage which is great and then have their sexual pleasure elsewhere and it works great. This was my thought of the way to accomplish this..... I too fear it would ruin everything which is why I have not done it and wanted to get other people's opinions....
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 07-07-2008 - 8:34pm
Give it some time for the birth control to be completely out of her system. Has she spoke to her gyn about the lack of libido?

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 07-11-2008 - 1:31pm

I think all men have this fantasy to be with an exotic beautiful woman.. A few years ago the wife and I role played this out. It worked fantastic..I met her at hotel bar for drinks, we had dinner and then went out to a show and some bar hopping.Came back to the motel to my room I had rented and had some awesome sex.We both stayed in character the whole night.I went by a nickname I have and she went by her middle name..After the sex was over.She got dressed and took the money I left for her in an envelop on the table.$300 for the night.She told me to call her again the next time I was in town.

I got home an hour later she had already changed clothes and had showered. She acted like nothing had happened..Neither did I..
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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 7:22pm
Out of curiousity .. how differently do you treat your "escort" when out to dinner and a movie than your wife so that it resembles role play?
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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 9:19pm

Out of curiousity .. how differently do you treat your "escort" when out to dinner and a movie than your wife so that it resembles role play?


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