Ever fantasize of having sex w/other ...

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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 8:48am

Ever fantasize of having sex w/other man/men in front of DH?(pick best answer.)



  • Yes, as he tells me what to do.
  • Yes, for his viewing pleasure.
  • Yes, with others in control of situation (rape).
  • Yes, to humiliate him (cuckold situation).
  • Yes and he joins in (heterosexually).
  • Yes and he joins in (bisexually).
  • Yes, but he doesn't watch, I tell him about it.
  • No, he's mine, I'm his, end of story.
  • EEEyyyuuuuuu!


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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:08am
No. That is not anything I fantasize about.

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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:13am
Morning BL.

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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:19am

I know my DH has this fantasy. I think I started it. He is totally heterosexual. He asked me years ago what were my fav fantasies. I said one of my favorites was to have sex with another man (or more than one) in front of him. He would tell me/them what to do. I would be both performing for him (one turn on) and enjoying the "taboo" of enjoying sex with another (different turn on). I told him this had been a fantasy of mine since watching "American Gigolo" with Richard Gere when I was in high school. There's a scene where Gere is hired by a man to come and have sex with his wife while he watches. Gere starts out gently and the husband corrects him and tells him to be rougher. Don't know why but I've always found that hot.

I don't know why but DH seems to have adopted this fantasy as his own. I sense he sees it as a cuckolding thing where he must watch as I have my fun. He pictures the other man or men being larger than he in all ways and that I taunt him telling how good this or that feels. I guess jealousy can be an aphrodisiac. Sometimes he takes it as far as having me make him prepare the other guy orally and use his hand to put the other guy in me and me telling him to clean us up orally after. That's not where my mind goes and I'm concerned why his goes there as we have a great relationship and I love him in every way mentally, emotionally, AND physically.

Let's be clear, we're only talking fantasies here.

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:21am
This is far more a male fantasy than female IMO .
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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:52am
Morning KD...

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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 10:56am

Hi ALL!


Not something he or I are interested in... I don't share well... I have found I am a VERY jealous person







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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 12:01pm

I think I remember a similar poll in Taboos and the answers were different, at least from the responses so far.


I chose yes with him joining heterosexually (although actually its not regarding 'DH' as I'm divorced and he was more vanilla than vanilla itself anyway), but would also enjoy several of the other scenarios as well.


The two men fantasy is a very hot favorite of mine. :)

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Sat, 05-24-2008 - 6:09am

SCENERIO -1-this fantasy is exactly like my H.he fantasizes another guy that i had a fling 5 yrs ago.i did reveal everything to my H about the stud i cheated on.no sooner we are in bed he start to ask me how he was,how big and how long he lasted.i respond slowly step by step;he really gets turned on and pounds me harder untill we both come.in reality the STUD was a PRO.and big.now my H wears all white V underwears to immulate him.


SCENERIO-2- we have a very close couple as friends.he was my H friend in high school.they played basketball and used to see him take shower after the game.he told me how big he was.he wished/fantasized him with me.he asks me whether i can handle

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Registered: 06-24-2007
Sat, 05-24-2008 - 11:26am
not this man's fantasy...not at all
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Sun, 05-25-2008 - 5:11am

We always watch a sex DVD during sex-mostly group sex DVD'S. We fantasize that we are part of the group. We tell each other about our fantasies. So hot.


Another way we fantasize is for her to use a realistic dildo while she gives me a BJ and we fantasize that we are having a threesome. I will say things like the other guy might say-you are so tight-You do it so good-You are the best I ever had-etc.


Fantasizing is so hot.

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