Exhibitionism fantasy help

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Registered: 08-16-2011
Exhibitionism fantasy help
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Tue, 08-16-2011 - 12:52am

hi all, i'm very new here so my apologies if this isn't the place to post this topic...

anyway, i am a 25 y/o male. i live in a desert community and will occasionally take my off road vehicle (a polaris rzr) on trails i know are frquented by other offroaders, or i will take it to nearby farm fields where i know there will be workers tending the fields. no big deal, right? well the catch is that when the mood strikes me right i will occasionally expose myself to some of the people i come across. In most cases i expose myself indirectly, and the people usually have no idea (ie. i'll drive by them indiscreetly with my shorts down.) In some cases, however, i've exposed myself very directly -- on one occasion i parked about 1/2 a mile from the farm workers i mentioned earlier, and proceeded to not only expose myself to them, but also full on masturbate in front of them. The thought of them seeing me, and possibly being turned on by it (even though i know they probably weren't), turned me on tremendously.

i don't know why i have this fantasy. i don't know if anyone out there can relate. either way i'd like to hear any thoughts/opinions.

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Registered: 05-28-2003
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 1:29pm

Well, dude, I'm going to keep this simple: You need to cut this out immediately, if not because of a regard for the comfort of your fellow citizens, then because you are one 15-year-old with a cell phone away from spending the rest of your days explaining to prospective employers, landlords and girlfriends why you are on the registry of sex offenders.

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Registered: 08-16-2011
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 1:42pm
Dude.....one of these days....one of the people watching you might be a member of the local law enforcement agencies.
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Registered: 08-16-2011
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 3:15pm
Believe me the thought has crossed my mind. And the physically stopping and exposing myself to others was a one time thing. Normally it's a very indirect and discreet type of exposure. Many times there isn't anyone around at all and I just cruiz around with my shorts down.

I just explained the extreme instance in my post
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Tue, 08-16-2011 - 8:28pm
dikdude007 wrote:

hi all, i'm very new here so my apologies if this isn't the place to post this topic...

anyway, i am a 25 y/o male. i live in a desert community and will occasionally take my off road vehicle (a polaris rzr) on trails i know are frquented by other offroaders,

Mrs P

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Registered: 08-07-2011
Thu, 08-18-2011 - 9:00pm
Well, while I can tell you that I totally understand WHY this turns you on (it does kinda me too actually, but you'd be hard pressed to find anything that doesn't turn me on) I don't have to tell you this is a bad idea. You already knew that so I won't lecture you. I think you should look into finding a sex club in your area if you get off on strangers watching you jack off, however I do realize that part of the appeal may be that the people are not willing participants in which case a sex club might not appeal to you (LOL it's hard for me to fathom how a sex club doesn't appeal to EVERYONE but again, I digress)...
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Thu, 08-18-2011 - 10:27pm
LOL....I'm giggling Michelle. We often "digress" around here!
LOL

Mrs P

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Fri, 08-19-2011 - 9:48pm
:) I like it...
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sat, 08-20-2011 - 11:36pm
It keeps things interesting and the conversation flowing certainly.
:)

Mrs P

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Sun, 08-21-2011 - 7:47am

I've always wanted to go to a sex club but never had the chance. I've been told there's one not far (45 minutes or so) from where I live but I'm single and I don't think those places want single men coming in.

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Registered: 08-07-2011
Sun, 08-21-2011 - 10:17am
Awww in my "fantasy land" I would totally go with you :) And yes, the backyard thing is hot. Anywhere you MIGHT be seen is awesome!
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