Experiences as a hot wife, taking a lover at your husband's request ?

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Experiences as a hot wife, taking a lover at your husband's request ?
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Thu, 12-29-2011 - 12:25pm

I fantasize frequently about my wife having sex with another man and being cuckolded. She is aware of this and although she has no objections to having intercourse with other men, she is concerned about how I may react if it really happens, and if it may damage our relationship. I have assured her it will not.

I would like to hear from wives or girlfriends who have had sex with other men at their partner's request - did you enjoy being with the other man? did your partner watch; or did you meet your lover separately and just describe the encounter to your partner later? - which worked best for you ?

Did it affect your relationship positively or negatively in the longer term?

Thanks!

-J

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Registered: 08-07-2011
Hi :) I've not done it since I've been married but I was with someone for a pretty long time and had that experience with him only the gender roles were a little different.

We agreed to have a threesome with my best friend and while I admit it was hot and I really reallyyyyyyyyyy wanted it - I did end up feeling kind of hurt. But on that note, it was definitely as hot as I'd hoped it'd be, I just don't think I was prepared for how I'd feel afterward.

As far as whether it damaged our relationship? No, I don't think it did. I got over it pretty quickly and honestly if I had to do all over again, I definitely would. It was an experience everyone should have at least once I think...

Good luck and I hope everything goes as you hope!

Michelle
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Registered: 04-26-2011
I have not had this experience, although I did try to make it happen once, but it did not. I have had friends that did, adnd they did report the same thing you did, mostly that it was fun, but there was some mixed emotions afterward. In one case it did negatively affect things, but i think that sometimes the relationships weren't good to start out with.

I've not pursued it since. I have a hard enough time pleasing one woman ;)
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Registered: 05-28-2011
I would find a way to.do.the fantasy wo actually doing so called fantasy. Could you dress up as a mailman repair man etc and then video tape the encounter? Because if this truly plays out it might or wont ne so fantastical
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Registered: 03-15-2006

Historically, the subject of sex with another person with spouse approval and or in attendance has been a

 Rich, good to the last drop

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Registered: 04-14-2008

like married in atlanta I had an experience with this with a pre-marraige boyfriend.

Karin W
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Registered: 01-13-2012

Over coffee one day a married friend asked my thoughts on her hubby’s fantasy of wanting to see her making love with another woman… I obliged to be the “other woman”.

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Registered: 01-09-2012
jmac, where did you go?

I would like to see this conversation continued and I can add to it myself, but only if I know you are still around to join in!
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Registered: 08-01-2006

You know, it will continue, if you post what you have to say about it. :)



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