Experimenting with sexy outfits?

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Experimenting with sexy outfits?
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Fri, 08-24-2012 - 1:00pm

I have been trying to go outside of my comfort zone by putting on sexy outfits for my boyfriend. So far I have tried just the typical "sleazy" club looking dress with thigh high boots, and short shorts with a tank top and high heels. However, I think I need work on how to execute these looks - do I just walk in and surprise him and jump in bed? Do I do a "striptease"? I am not a good dancer and am not very coordinated so I am new to this. Also, I worry about my body not looking good in these skimpy outfits, which is why I don't normally dress this way except for at home.

Any new outfit suggestions, or how I can creatively go about doing more things outside of my comfort zone without looking like I'm an idiot in the process?

 

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Sun, 08-26-2012 - 12:55pm

      Jc, very interesting question.  I would like it if my wife was to just tell me she was going to do a fashion show and have me sit on a chair or the bed.  She would then put on an outfit in another room and then come in to show me.  Then go back and put on another.  You don’t have to be very coordinated for that.  As to looking good in skimpy outfits I would suggest wearing something that makes you feel “hot” and not think about what others would think.  Try it out first and look in a mirror.  Then when you do your fashion show for him, make sure to smile and to stand up straight.  I feel that those two things plus confidence greatly improves a person’s looks.  I’ve been thinking about some things you could wear and I’m thinking of responding again with some suggestions.  I’m glad you posted this question.

      Tom,

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Mon, 08-27-2012 - 2:50pm

Great question and that you are trying to do this is wonderful.  I would just great him at the door and ask him how was his day.  Sort of like that scene from Pretty Woman where Julia is sitting with only a tie when Richard walks in.  I think he will love any look so don't worry about feeling clumsy.  Also practice wearing high heels around the house and stand tall with your shoulders back so your boobs stand out more.  Learn to wiggle your butt when you walk.  When you step forward transfer all your weight to the front foot and when you step forward with the back leg transfer all your weight to that foot.  That will get your rear swinging. 

Now my favorite outfit is black fishnet stockings with a garter belt and black high heels with a thong panty outside the garter belt for easier removal.  (You could also get the crotchless underwear.)  Then a black bra preferably a shelf bra or one with open nipples.  You could wear a short robe to be a little modest.  Frederick's of Hollywood has some inexpensive stuff. 

Now the hard part.  Looking sexy is part wardrobe but also part looking confident.  I know some physically beautiful woman who are not sexy but also some less pretty woman who are very sexy.  They just have an attitude like they are the best lay in town but with no ego.  Practice walking around the house and strutting your stuff.  Your boy friend will love the effort.  Finally if you belong to a gym talk to a trainer about some weight training to firm up the muscles.

Again hats off to you for doing this.

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Registered: 06-02-2012
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 3:46am

Sexy outfits are more fun if you wear them out!  It makes your guy want you to see you show off, and it builds up anticipation because you can't do much there.

I'm pretty modest normally but for my guy I'll go out in more daring things.  One that's good is a black dress that barely covers my butt.  If I dance or bend over it shows a glimpse of panties.  Another good one is just jeans and a thin white tank top that's sort of see through but not really.  No bra.  No cleavage, but it shows the shadow of my nipples.  I'd never wear this stuff out alone but with my guy there it's exciting to both of us.

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Registered: 02-15-2007
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 12:10pm

          Linds, sounds great.

          Tom,