Fantasies about Others?

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Fantasies about Others?
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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 10:29am
Ok guys....question..do any of your or have any of you fantasized about someone other than your SO while you were doing the deed? Be honest lol...if yes, do you feel guilty about or not? WHy or why not? Is there a reason you do this? Just curious

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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 10:35am
Honestly... Yeah a couple of times in the far away past I have.. I do it more often now, and no I don't feel guilty at all.



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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 10:39am
I've done it in the past too...never felt guilty...DH has admitted to doing it before too...so its never been an issue...then last night...I did fantasise about someone else and this morning I feel really, really guilty about it.....

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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 10:47am

good morning

yes i have fantasized about someone else in the middle and sometimes i feel guilty. and sometimes i dont. It depends on who it is i guess. But my dh can put ideas in my head really fast and sometimes its not something that i want to happen it just does.

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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:27am
Who was it?



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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:38am
Yes I do fantasize about others during and I have on occassion felt guilty. But you do what you need to do to get what you need to get out of it. If your mind goes there it goes there.. your body is still his.

 


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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:43am
My tattoo artist...and I guess I feel guilty because I know if I wanted it to happen with him, it could.....and I feel guilty for wanting it really bad even though I would never act on it...DH is too important and I love him too much to ruin things with him...is it wrong of me to want it like I do?

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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:53am
It is not wrong to want someone that bad, it is only wrong if you act on it. Just as long as you keep the tattoo artist in your head you are fine. He is just on your mind because you just spent all that time with him going through all that pain, which turns you on. And we discussed you being turned on by him yesterday.. It will all fade...kind of like the tattoo... once you peel...


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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 12:29pm
Yeah...it faded before when he moved away...and I feel sure it will this time as well. I think its that he's the one that brought this out in me and made me accept it, though I've never experienced it with him. That and I know he could offer me exactly what I want out of a D/s situation...things DH can't give me because of the nature of our relationship...and that makes it hard on me...I always feel guilty when I see him and spend time getting inked by him...I can't help it...and unfortunatly I let it interfere with intimate time with DH until those feelings fade...and I know that isnt good

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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 12:34pm

"unfortunatly I let it interfere with intimate time with DH until those feelings fade...and I know that isnt good"


I know those feelings all to well. I have

 


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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 12:56pm
I thought that's who you'd say. No, please don't feel guilty about it. He's only in your head because he's back, did your tat and had to hold you down. It's a fantasy, nothing wrong with that.



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