Fantasy Come True?

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Fantasy Come True?
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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:26am

Ok..so next weekend we're having our company Christmas party at this really swanky place downtown. DH and I have reserved a very nice hotel room for that night so that we don't have to drive home after the party. The party is semi formal so I'll be all dolled up and DH will look great. Anyways, DH is wanting to spend the remainder of the night, after the party, fulfilling a fantasy of mine...so I was thinking since we're going to be at a wonderful hotel, I might just ask for one of the fantasies I wrote about in my story..I just don't have a clue what to ask for..some of the stuff I wrote about it alot harsher than what we've tried, but I think he's game at this point. So what do you guys think...is one scenario sexier than the others?


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Lothiriel


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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:32am
Morning L. I think I read something earlier about dh not having read your stories...Why not print one and let him decide. That way it will be a complete surprise for you...



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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:36am
Wow...that would be very brave of me lol...though I do think its a great idea...but I'm a little nervous sharing it with him...and I'm not sure I'm ready to show him the entire thing...so perhaps I can pick and choose...

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:42am

not trying to use your words against you, but it's one of the strongest things in your relationship with DH in it being D/S trust?

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:53am

Lothiriel,

Wow a swanky hotel. All kinds of sweet, naught, kinky things are running through my mind. I am a bit disappointed this year in our company Christmas party. We are having it at some dark dank, stale beer smelling bingo hall. BTW the restrooms are not conducive for any quickies, even the women's room smells like piss. There are no broom closets or any other out of the way rooms where such naughty adventures could take place! I'm jealous!!

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:55am
You're absolutly right, trust is one of the most important aspects of our relationship. The two of us have come VERY far since our days of vanilla sex. I suppose the brutality I've depicted in some of the scenes is what has kept me from sharing it with him thus far. I'm not sure he would be comfortable leaving me beaten and bleeding on the bed for instance...I just don't know how he would react. My gut tells me that while he may not want to go to that extreme he wouldn't judge me for fantasising about it. But on the other hand I still struggle with the way I was raised and the thought of is it ok for me to want these things, and is it normal? Thats what keeps me from sharing.

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 10:56am
Hehe..our marketing director was out on medical leave, so I got to plan the party this year...and my Boss just gave me his credit card and said go for it lol..he's really excited about what I've planned

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 11:03am

you can also give him those stories and fantasies with a disclaimer.

~ Last year I received a kidney transplant from my older brother from another state. I'm glad and thankful the operation as a success. Just don't tell him that now i have 3!!!
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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 11:03am

Well my boss and his wife usually make all the arrangements. It is not like the company is hurting this year. All the divsions are up, costs are in control. My divsion is at a 15% increase over last year in total sales. People under me have made more money, I made more money this year.

No one in any of the departments wants to go this year. But we will, at least there is a bar with liquor. Liquor up front,poker in the rear!

Male65401

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the thingsyou didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bow lines.Sail away from the safe harbor.Catch the trade winds in your
sails.Explore. Dream.Discover" ...

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 11:07am
We do use a safeword, always have. DH insists upon it, and I am greatful that he does. I've never used it though, never felt the need. I imagine that he would probably suprise me and take me further than I anticipate he would. So we shall see how it goes..I am excited ~smile~

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 11:41am
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