Fantasy: Its all about the size

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Fantasy: Its all about the size
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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 9:04am
My fantasy revolves around another man giving me wife pleasure. I'm a man of below average size (5"), and I know my wife has had and enjoyed larger. Of course i'm not talking crazy big....just bigger. like a good thick 7-9. They say size doesn't matter...but almost every girl i have the discussion with.....once you break through their knee jerk reaction to say it doesn't matter.....they all end up saying that bigger is usually better. what do you guys think?
I'd love to watch my wife enjoy another man. Hear her noises and see her face. Watch her reactions:)....
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Registered: 05-13-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 7:12am
thanks your reply keeps me going:).....I think all women should get to experience whatever life brings. to have someone really rock my wifes world, would be such a treat for her and for me. I can't imagine how my wife would react to your man, but I bet after a while she'd be one happy girl:)
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 8:30am

Hi and welcome darknsexyz. Nice to meet you. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks. The people here are awesome, so stick around and jump in anytime.


Have you tried those pille? Do they really work? I'd highly doubt it.

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Registered: 09-18-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 8:50am

Has she explained why she's not into it? How long have you been asking her? I can tell you how I've felt about his mutual fantasy, maybe it will help you?

Sometimes I am really into the fantasy and really want to experience another man, the whole idea turns me on. However at times when he's really pushing it, I start to question why he wants it so bad. I start getting insecure and then feel he's pushing me onto someone else and really doesn't want me anymore. It's very hard for me to wrap my mind around it sometimes, why would someone I'm that intimate with want to share me with someone else?

We haven't had the chance to fulfill this fantasy, or our MFM fantasy that we have either.

I understand her point of view on toys, they don't feel real, but I do enjoy them anyway when he uses them on me. Have you guys looked at Cyberskin dildos? They feel quite real, at least the ones I've touched in the stores, but they are quite expensive.

Well ask her if she'll flirt, maybe it's the happy medium you guys are looking for.

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Registered: 09-22-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 8:51am
Hi nhgal. This is just a new profile name. I am Conors_mama. I just introduced myself yesterday. I am going to use this members name for this message board and my mama name for my 2007 playgroup! SO its still me.... Z!!!
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Registered: 09-13-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 9:06am

Just remember that not all women do like a larger man. I have talked to a few who would run the opposite direction if they saw one that big. Your wife might be one of those.


In her love for you she might not be able to enjoy any other penis but yours. I know that in the past when I was with a smaller man I had no desire for a bigger one. Only wanted my own man. You men are more self-conscience about size than needed. A woman's body has the ability to loosen or tighten to the size needed and can get the same enjoyment no matter the size. We get more turned on by the emotional feelings for our man than the size of his equipment. Remember, the brain is the most impotant of the sex organs not the genitals


You must be careful trying to get your wife to go for another. She might take that to mean that you don't want her for yourself anymore. Our minds do go to strange places at times. Do you really want to take that chance. Even if she did agree to try it, are you ready for what that could do to the bond between the two of you? Some fantasies are meant to stay fantasies. If you just want to see her reaction to being completely filled, try a larger toy. Then her turn-on will still be just you and what you can do for her.

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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 9:59am
lol.. I saw that after I posted this.

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 11:25am
I've been talking about it for 2 years or so. I never try to push anything on her, I don't even really push for anything RT. I like to try to get her to fantasise about it with me. Sometimes she will. she likes to make size jokes all the time, she knows i like that.
Flirting might be the option, but i think maybe cyber flirting would be easier??
I have seen the cyberskin but they are pretty expensive, but i might just break down and get it:)
She has had bigger men and liked it. Her on BF was big, the relationship was bad, she said she stayed in it mostly for the sex, so she must have liked it:) I'm trying to get her to rember what she is missing.
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Registered: 08-13-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 3:16pm

no problem! ;oP hope you both find the satisfaction you've been dreaming of. don't try the pills- i've never heard of any pill that works, except of course viagra...tee hee.

*evil grin*

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 9:52am
lol...thanks for your help....viagra is something i certainly don't need yet!....
heck just talking about this stuff on a public forum (especially admitting my size issue) is all the viagra i need!!
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Registered: 09-18-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 11:56am
You're right, cyber flirting might be easier. You can sit beside her and read the e-mails or IM's as she gets them and see her replies. It's much safer too! My fwb encouraged me to join a site that would allow us maybe to find a 2nd person for MFM fantasy. I joined and outrageously flirted through emails with these men. He enjoyed reading everything. Maybe she would be more comfortable with this; we can be and say we would normally never be able to say in person. Then you get to benefit when she gets all worked up and jumps into bed with you. Hmmm maybe with that cyberskin dildo you're going to buy (wink, wink!) she'll really let loose and get into that fantasy of yours!
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