Fantasy: Its all about the size

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Fantasy: Its all about the size
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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 9:04am
My fantasy revolves around another man giving me wife pleasure. I'm a man of below average size (5"), and I know my wife has had and enjoyed larger. Of course i'm not talking crazy big....just bigger. like a good thick 7-9. They say size doesn't matter...but almost every girl i have the discussion with.....once you break through their knee jerk reaction to say it doesn't matter.....they all end up saying that bigger is usually better. what do you guys think?
I'd love to watch my wife enjoy another man. Hear her noises and see her face. Watch her reactions:)....
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Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 12:04pm
I like the way you think!
I'm trying to get her into it, but she is so shy and disinterested. I need to walk the line and not be to pushy. I would love to be a fly on the wall as she talks on IM or something. I think she understands it would be fun for us, she think she just has that initial shyness to overcome. any ideas?
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Registered: 02-04-2007
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:09pm

I have a suggestion...Maybe have her start posting here.

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Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:23pm
I've showed her the board before and she has read some of the stories on the steamy stories section. I wonder if I told her that i posted about her on the board...if she would be more into reading what everyone has said about her and replying to it. Since everyone has been so nice and level headed, perhaps she would feel comfortable talking about it.
I like your idea though...thanks for the suggestion.
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Registered: 02-04-2007
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:29pm
You are very welcome!!.....Good Luck..I hope it works!!



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Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:36pm
yeah if i can get her on here then all you smart women of the Fantasy board can help awaken her. She's a great woman who loves sex and I know has a great mind. She would love it. If she would just relax and go with it. Fantasy that is:)...not other men:)..lol
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Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:40pm
I can tell you from my point of view which may or may not be shared by your husband. My wife felt that i too was trying to get rid of her. But I explained nothing could be farther from the truth. I want HER to experience everything, its all about her ultimate pleasure. I feel she shouldn't dream of the well endowed muscular hunk, if she can get him then she should be able to experience him. I would love to watch her be a woman and not just my wife. To watch her lust and really get caught up in the moment with someone that might really be giving her something different then i do.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:58pm

I agree 100% with ST. Get her to set up an account here in iVillage. Does she know your screen name here? If not, keep it that way for a while.


These boards have a way of opening people up.



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Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 2:03pm
Any idea on how I can get her to do that? Trying of a way to broach the subject so that she will think " yeah, i think i'll do that".....
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 2:32pm
Does she know you post here? I'm sorry, but I forgot, do you two live together? Maybe leave the site open, (without you being logged in, of course), so she'll see it and hopefully start looking around. Not necessarily on any particular board, just the love messages. Let her get a feel for things. Just happen to walk by and see what she's doing, and take it from there with her. Look around together, then come here and see what she does.

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Registered: 09-18-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 3:34pm

You and my "friend" have the same mind; are you sure you're not the same man?

He's said exactly the same thing, so it really helps me that you've just confirmed what he has said. I do believe what he says and I do trust him.

Maybe it's because I could never see him with another woman? I think that's another reason I have a hard time wrapping my mind around this whole thing. I'm not possessive, but all that pleasure he'd be giving her, I'd want that to be me. Guess I'm the one who's jealous!

I do still want to share his fantasy, and if it could be carried out, I wouldn't pass up the opportunity, but I do worry for him, and his feelings.

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