fantasy vs. reality

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fantasy vs. reality
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Tue, 03-08-2005 - 6:25pm
Just wondering....
Is there anything that you've ever fantasized about that you feel that your S/O in reality wouldn't go for, or vice versa?

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 9:05pm
Certainly. I fantasize about other men and he wouldn't go for that. After we've had fights I've had fantasies of doing somewhat demeaning things to him, and I'm sure he wouldn't go for that. I have fantasized of fmf 3some where the action is me-entered, he would love a fmf 3some but would want it to be him-centered. I have fantasized of doing him with a strap on, but I know he hates anal penetration of anything bigger than my finger tip.
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Tue, 03-08-2005 - 10:14pm

I suppose I should answer my own question.I know a have a few that I havent shared with him (until recently). I have fanstized about a FMF and a rim job.

Deb

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 6:24am
I have fantasized about a MMF with a bi male where everybody gets to have a little fun orally (or anally for that matter). Would love to have DW insert her finger into my anus during oral. Have heard that is great.
Would love to have a woman do me with a strap-on. Would even consider wearing garters and stockings to enhance the moment
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Registered: 10-16-2004
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 8:32am
I would love to be tied up...he says he can't do it, he would feel too uncomfortable about it...I'm still working on him ;)
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 9:56pm
There are so many, anything anal (claims a partner years ago didn't seem to enjoy it, so I guess I don't even get to try!), a MFM threesome, light bondage and swinging.
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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 12:35pm

hehe...actually... I think i spent too much time in cyberland before I did anything in reality...because a LOT of my fantasies are things *I* wouldnt go for in real life, let alone worrying about Him going for them! hehe... most of them he'd like more then I would, in reality.

Of the fantasies that I have that are a lot more tame, and things I could see myself actually enjoying...im JUST starting to share with him, and he's been More then happy to oblige each and every idea. Actually, shared one with him last night and found out he's been using the Same fantasy during masturbation....hmm...now...I could just get him HERE, I'd be golden. :)

He has significantly more experience then I do...of the Men's list of fantasies being polled right now, he's only Not done sex with a man and sex with a celebrity. So he's pretty open to trying something if *I'm* willing....but also has a "been there, done that" attitude for most, which is good, cause there's no pressure.

His fantasy that he Would definitely like, that I have yet to go for, is sex in public places. the *idea* turns me on..but would need to get out of this Very Small town before I would want to try it!!

~ Teresa

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:07pm

My elevator fantasy - and any fantasy that involves more people than just the two of us will always remain just a fantasy.


Great questioN!


Jennie

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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:08pm

LMAO - maybe you could compromise... and each be involved in a threesome in some manner where you are each the center... ;-)


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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:09pm

A rim job is oral to the anus right? I don't think my DH would be into giving that but I bet you anything he would let me give... but I am not down with that. ;-)


Jennie

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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:10pm

Would you want the woman doing you with the strap on to be DW or someone else? I love the added stockings and garter. Nice touch!!


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