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| Thu, 08-21-2008 - 8:29am |
Since my divorce, I've been doing all those sexual things I had to suppress for years during my marriage, things I'd discovered in adolescence or at college. Sexually, I was such a sad case while married. My husband didn't cooperate with me in anything, didn't share my sexual goals, and I became a nervous wreck. I always liked the idea of a threesome but had no idea how well it could work out when you find people who are suitable in their desires. One of my girlfriends loves to watch. She would much rather watch than participate. I'm not like that at all. I need to have some attention, even the spotlight. As for boyfriend, he is quite able "to perform," since he has great trouble coming. Most times he just doesn't. Plus, he's "big." Visually, it's a real turn on and stimulates my imagination (and his girlfriend's, too). I get so aroused seeing my friend wildly excited while I'm showing off with her boyfriend during a long bout of intercourse; the only thing is I consider myself "the weak one" because I would be unable to share a man like she does. It's a troublesome thought. I try to think that's just how people are, but still, I can't get over the idea that it's weak of me not to be able to share. I've always thought this. How should I manage this feeling?

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I don't think it's weak of you at all. Some people can share with no problems and others can't.
So, you share your gf's bf? How do you feel about him? Are you jealous of her with him? Technically you are sharing.
In no way do I think you are 'weak' just because you don't want to share your man (when he is actually yours).
Sounds like you are all having a good time...very jealous
Do you and her interact or is it just him with the women?
He may not always be unable to ejaculate.
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