First Real Spanking

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Registered: 03-06-2008
First Real Spanking
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Mon, 02-02-2009 - 9:46am

Ok - this isn't a question so Q & A section might not be the best place for it but I wanted to share :)


I had the hottest Friday night! After being married for 6 years, DH and I have been trying new stuff in the bedroom for the last few months. And I discovered I am very aroused with spankng and we have played around with it as a tiny tiny part of foreplay over the last couple of months. But I really wanted... well... more.


So Friday night, we set up a role play. Me in a tiny little plaid skirt and tight tank and him as a detention teacher. And I got my first real spanking. And O... M... G... what a night! Not sure how much detail is appropriate here :) but we will definitely be trying this again - maybe with a different role play :)


So anyone out there being shy about talking to your partner about your fantasies, and possibly playing them out with him/her -- it was worth the awkwardness to start the conversation!!! We were a couple that didn't ever really talk about sex and we slowly started talking a few months ago about stuff we may want to try and tried some of it -- and it completely revived our sex life!


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Registered: 03-09-2005
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 11:32am
Woohoo!
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 1:09pm
Woohoo!!! Good for you. Give us as much details as you'd like, within TOS...



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Registered: 11-29-2007
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 4:42pm
Ooh lucky you!
My wife and I LOVE spanking....too bad we have a little one in the house now and things tend to get a bit loud! (something we have to save for those great nights when our little guy is sleeping over at Grandma's lately)
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Registered: 02-08-2008
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 8:24pm

Interesting that this topic would come up.. I was discussing this very topic with a friend that post here just today. I was not so interested in it, but after talking to her about this it sort of got my interest up some.. It will not happen in my home unless I am ready to find another place to live... LOL But if she would be open to it, I think I could do this with in some reason of course..

I love to hear about couples that openly discuss there wants an needs in the bedroom as well as their relationship in general... It is something that I dont have in mine.. I have tried many times to open up that venue but it has only been met with silence...
I think it is very important and its something I would insist on if I was still young and new in my relationship...
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Registered: 08-03-2006
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 8:27am
Congrats! Quite a breakthrough! Love the little plaid skirt...I have like 10 of them in different colors hehehe...I love a good spanking, or whipping or flogging....those around here know I'm a huge pain slut...lol...I hope you guy continue your voyage into this and enjoy!!

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Registered: 11-29-2007
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 8:54am
Actually my wife and I are struggling constantly to improve our communication. We both acknowledge that it's pretty lacking in general....and especially in the bedroom. Fortunately for us, spanking was something we 'stumbled onto' and her reaction was so "dramatic" that it HAD to be discussed!
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 10:16am

thats great news. welcome to the dark side. some enjoy it so much they have to have alot of it. so watch out.....LOL

enjoy and what ever is comfortable to you go for it.

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Registered: 03-09-2005
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 11:30am

Very juicy details, and not a bit of TMI.

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 4:47pm

Your post was really exciting! You made me very wet young lady. Very wet.

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Wed, 02-04-2009 - 12:51am

If you're looking for some role playing ideas, check out youtube and do a search for Bush Screws the Country.

Hope it works for you.

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