Fly Those FREAK Flags!

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Fly Those FREAK Flags!
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Mon, 04-11-2011 - 10:19pm

Would you say you have a Freak flag?

Have you made changes and started to allow in previously unexplored Fantasy thoughts you once believed to be "freaky"?

Care to share?

What is something on the "freaky" side that you have not previously Fantasized about but might be open to exploring?

Have you or do you hold yourself back from exploring certain thoughts?

Mrs P

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Mon, 04-11-2011 - 10:31pm

Oh, I'm absolutely a freak! I'm a wannabe Goth chick who is into fetish fashions, pain, submission, body art (tats, piercing, corsetting, etc.), a Pagan (which many non-Pagans see as freaky), someone who is into what others see as macabre (sex in a graveyard at night, anyone?), who believes that you should be able to fully be yourself, whatever your sexual orientation is, etc.

I decided a long time ago not to hold myself back at exploring my sexual fantasies. Believe me, just when I think that I'm a freak, I read about someone else who is freakier than I am.

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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 9:10am

Would you say you have a Freak flag? Yes

Have you made changes and started to allow in previously unexplored Fantasy thoughts you once believed to be "freaky"? Yes

Care to share? Bondage never appealed, but I trust BF so it must be ok to try it

What is something on the "freaky" side that you have not previously Fantasized about but might be open to exploring? Female Domination

Have you or do you hold yourself back from exploring certain thoughts? Pegging

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 9:22am

someone who is into what others see as macabre (sex in a graveyard at night, anyone?),

*raises hand*

Oooo me me me
I went all goosebumps just reading it

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 10:43am

Would you say you have a Freak flag?

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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 12:46pm

Would you say you have a Freak flag? Yes

Have you made changes and started to allow in previously unexplored Fantasy thoughts you once believed to be "freaky"? Yes

Care to share? Yes, I have gotten more into bondage, role play, and rough sex.

What is something on the "freaky" side that you have not previously Fantasized about but might be open to exploring?

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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 9:41pm

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Tue, 04-12-2011 - 9:46pm

Would you say you have a Freak flag?

Oh yeah. It's waving high.

Have you made changes and started to allow in previously unexplored Fantasy thoughts you once believed to be "freaky"?

Yes, I have. I met someone new and she's a domme. Not a pro domme, just dominant in our relationship.

Care to share?

She's into just about everything, so she's been open to anything I've been curious about. I've been curious about CBT for awhile and she already knew how to use some of those toys and stuff I didn't know. She knows about the story I wrote and we tried some of the stuff I wrote in my story. I love being tied up, but that's been something that was in every one of my play sessions.

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Tue, 04-12-2011 - 10:21pm

My girl wants to put me in a puppy cage to see how long I'll last without going ballistic. I don't know about that one, though. I really do panic when I'm closed in.

If you get into the puppy cage, I'd like to hear about it. I've wanted to do puppy play with Master. I think that I could handle being caged, as long as it was one large enough for me to wander around in. What I don't like is being so confined that I can't move at all, like a body bag or wrapped in Saran wrap.

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Wed, 04-13-2011 - 12:04pm
I have seen the cage. It's not big enough to roll around in. I would have to be curled up in a ball. She is really bugging me about it. I'm not ready. I've been laid out flat and wrapped tightly in a sheet and laced up. I don't mind that as much because I'm laying flat and I'm on my back. She can't understand why I kinda like that, but I'm not into the cage thing.

What is corseting?
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Registered: 09-20-2007
Wed, 04-13-2011 - 12:29pm

Corseting is wearing a corset to where it changes the body structure. The reason why you'd read about so many women during the Victorian period fainitng all the time was because of their corsets. They couldn't breathe because the corsets were laced so tightly. And that's also why so many of them died in childbirth. The corsets changed their body structure both inside and out to where they simply didn't have the room to give birth.

Corseting is really an extreme and I would never go that far with one, but I do love the look of a corset.

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