Friday Fives

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Fri, 05-02-2008 - 11:07am

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 6:54pm
I know exactly what you mean, KD. I could find someone who just wants sex, but that's not what I truly crave. I want the intimacy, the love, the togetherness, all of it. Is that too much to ask for?


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Registered: 03-09-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:07pm

{{{HUGS}}}

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:14pm

"I want the intimacy, the love, the togetherness, all of it"


i couldn't put it any better myself. that is exactly what I crave.



"Is that too much to ask for?"


I certainly don't think it's too much ask for whatsover. I am all for the enthusiastic type of sex, but knowing that ther can be the emotional and intimate style as well available. that's when it's the best.






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Registered: 03-02-2006
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:19pm
Not long-winded at all, KD. I think it's wonderful you know what you want and I appreciate your unwillingness to settle for less. BTW- when you find all that, please make sure he has a brother just like him for me. No, make that two brothers- one for me, one for LR. Ah nuts. How about

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Registered: 03-09-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:24pm

LOL!!!

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:25pm

"Sorry....that got a little long winded..





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Registered: 03-02-2006
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:28pm
I agree with you totally. I am finding it nearly impossible to comprehend why someone who loves you can deny you the simplest yet greatest pleasures in the world. I miss the touches, caresses, snuggling- all the little gestures of love even more than I actually miss the "sex" part, if you understand. For me, all the little things add up, and then the "sex" part takes care of itself. As in, make me happy outside the bedroom, I'll make sure you're happy inside the bedroom. I don't mean that in a "jump through hoops to please me and EARN my love" kind of way. It's actually quite easy to make me happy, if one takes the time and makes an effort to do so...


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Registered: 03-09-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:29pm

Thanks CB, I know I will find my way.

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:33pm
LOL! Yes, I was afraid I might be asking for a bit much there. Friends will work though. That way all of us have a good reason to get together- the men can have their time, and us ladies can have some time too!


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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 7:35pm

"I am finding it nearly impossible to comprehend why someone who loves you can deny you the simplest yet greatest pleasures in the world."


This is so true. I don't understand how anyone can ever not see it as such a fulfilling and enjoyable expression of feelings, emotions, and love. It's the greatest feeling in the world.



"I miss the touches, caresses, snuggling- all the little gestures of love even more than I actually miss the "sex" part, if you understand"


I understand fully. All those little things are a reiteration of the deeper feelings that make the full expression so much more intense and meaningful.



"For me, all the little things add up, and then the "sex" part takes care of itself. As in, make me happy outside the bedroom, I'll make sure you're happy inside the bedroom."


I swear. I have said that exact sentence to my wife. She agrees but never allows the follow up. If everything is in balance and the give and take is equal with thought of the other person. It will lead to two very happy people in the end.