Getting her to the next level

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2008
Getting her to the next level
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Wed, 09-19-2012 - 10:33am

I have not posted here in a while. But I wanted to post an update. I have been working with my wife for years now about my fantasy of watching her enjoy a larger man. She always thought I was crazy. But now she at least likes the fantasy of it. It has been fun to play with and she now even emails other men for cyber fun.

I'd love to still talk with some well endowed guys out there and maybe find someone that could help her get to the point of maybe trying it for real.

Anyone have luck in this type of scenario?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2008
Thu, 09-20-2012 - 3:18pm

defineltey sounds like a plan.....something to try!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2011
Thu, 09-20-2012 - 2:25pm

How about this.....go to a XXX store or get into the Adam and Eve site.....get a nice big long and thick strap on....tell your wife that you found a "friend"....put a blindfold on her....strap that sucker on....then take care of business....

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2008
Thu, 09-20-2012 - 12:07pm

well we have begun the toy fun!.....i am small and don't like to pretend to be big...but do help her enjoy it :smileyhappy:

now i just need to find the right man for her :smileywink:

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2009
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 9:22pm

Hi mltmwk,

My DH would also like me to be with a well-endowed man.  But he can't bring himself to "be ok with it".  yet... ;-)

In the meantime, as manwithcats said, try a bigger toy.  Maybe some roleplay mixed in where you pretend to be the bigger man. 

Maybe a step further, but not as far as you seem to want, would be a webcam scenario.  You using the toy on her while one of her well-endowed cyber friends watches.  If she's shy about that, maybe wear masks or something. ?

Its good that she is open to your fantasy more than she once was.  However, maybe having sex in front of you is something that is just too far for her.  If you inch along, you'll both discover her boundaries (and yours).  have fun and tell us how things advance please.

Ivy 

 


 


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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2001
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 8:30pm

Before you jump to another person why go together and bye her a big toy.  She can put on a show for you. 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2011
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 3:25pm
I'm sure....things are always hotter and sexier when it's a fantasy....and you know....you might not even like it in real time
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2008
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 2:14pm

I hope you are right. But it is hard to make that jump. I know I talk a good game online but falter when it becomes real!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2011
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 2:10pm
"But now she at least likes the fantasy of it. It has been fun to play with and she now even emails other men for cyber fun."

If she's at that level with emailing and cyber fun....trust me....you'll finally get your fantasy taken care of....