Guys - Is there A Difference Betwen C...

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Registered: 01-29-2008
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Fri, 04-11-2008 - 1:02pm

Guys - Is there A Difference Betwen Cumming with a Blow Job and Cumming in Sex?



  • Blow job is better
  • Sex is better
  • There isn't a difference
  • Other - please explain


You will not be able to change your vote.


surfergal xx

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Registered: 01-15-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 9:11am

I hear you.


Like I said if couples could learn to communicate honestly with each other about sex, we would have a lot less frustration.


It is soooo frustrating when one part of the couple is trying soooo hard and the other part just refuses to communicate....

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Registered: 03-17-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 9:34am

Good Morning FG...


Sometimes I wonder

 



  


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Registered: 01-28-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:22am

"Like I said if couples could learn to communicate honestly "


"Honestly" is so the operative word there. I have tried to communicate with her many many times. She tells me she agrees or tells me something about what she is thinking, but it's not until some time later I find out she was only doing something or acting in someway because the "thought" that's what I wanted. I just want honesty.



"It is soooo frustrating when one part of the couple is trying soooo hard "


Frustrating again is the operative word. Try Try Try, and each effort seems to just be absorbed and then disappears.






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Registered: 01-15-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:34am

Yes M'lady it makes perfect sense.


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Registered: 01-15-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:36am

True.

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:40am

Yep, it's an easy out to just say what's wanted by the other person. Much different in the application of those words.











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Registered: 03-17-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:57am

I wouldn't go as far and say everything else in my relationship is great.

 



  


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Registered: 01-15-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:08am

Glad to bring a smile to your face :)


It is a habit I picked up, I do medieval reinactments as a side hobby and have been knighted (I have a sword and everything ) :O)


I doubt that she will do a 180 although that would truly be a welcome event. My DW is the type of person, once her mind is set on something nothing sort of a cataclismical event would change her mind.


We have no children together so it is not a matter of staying together for the children, and if the rest of the relationship was bad, it would be a no brainer.


To be brutally honest, probably the main reason I have not left yet, is when I got into this relationship, I was very specific about my HL and that it was important to me. She was HL in the beginning as well and so it looked like it was a match made in heaven....until she lost it. Whats to keep me from finding someone else, stressing how I feel and then the same thing happening? At 46 it is hard to think about starting all over.


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Registered: 03-17-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:37am

Wow... knighted.

 



  


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Registered: 01-15-2008
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:46am

We have been together for 10 years, married for 8 years.


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