Halloween Costume Advice Needed

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Halloween Costume Advice Needed
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Thu, 10-03-2013 - 2:41pm

Hello everyone!

This is my first time posting on this particular board so hopefully I came to the right place.

I have purchased a "Naughty Nurse" costume to wear for my BF sometime soon. However...I'm a bit unsure of how to go about doing this.

I know that he hasn't really tried or is into role play. I've done a few 'novice' scenarios before and feel fairly comfortable. I'm just wondering how I should approach this.

Do I tell him ahead of time that I have a surprise for him? Do I just put it on and walk upstairs? I'm more worried/concerned about him not knowing how to react. He knows I know he doesn't really role play so I don't want him to think this is my expectation. It is just supposed to be some sexy fun.

I was toying with the idea of do I just wear it and act normal? Or do I launch into my own role playing act and let him just be himself? Or am I just over-thinking this entire thing?

Any suggestions would be appreciated!

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Registered: 04-06-2012
Fri, 10-04-2013 - 4:14pm
I think I would just have it be a surprise. Put it on when you are in the mood, and start flirting with him a little in a naughty nurse kind of way. You can keep it sexy without being over the top into the fantasy. I think he'll enjoy it if you just try to seduce him in a sexy fun kind of way ;)
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Registered: 09-11-2013
Wed, 10-09-2013 - 6:12pm
I agree with b-and-b; just slip it on, when the mood is right or maybe before he comes home and be sure to act sexy and flirtatious. He should get turned on and hopefully reciprocate. Don't forget the heels and red lipstick ;)
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Registered: 10-14-2013
Mon, 10-14-2013 - 10:56pm

My suggestion is to surprise him and wear the costume in public  to a club or to a halloween party. Just let yours and his emotions take over!

Enjoy!

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Wed, 10-16-2013 - 3:06pm

Thanks everyone! (And yes, I added the red lipstick and heels).

I took your suggestion and just put it on and went upstairs. I don't know what I was so worried about because he was thrilled! No pressure to "act a certain way" or anything like that. I guess I was just worried that he may not like it. I'm glad I was wrong!

We had a nice time. ;)

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Mon, 10-21-2013 - 9:18am
Good for you Nad :) Hope you get the opportunity to "treat" him again ;)