Hard questions, try to give imput

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Hard questions, try to give imput
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Wed, 05-14-2008 - 5:02pm

Try if you can to answer this question or maybe just give some ideas.


Is there anything you can think of that helped you be more sexually open?


How were you able to take the fantasies from you mind and bring them into the bedroom? If not the whole fantasy maybe just parts of it?


Do you believe you SO had anything to do with you being able to be sexually open?


If you have a HL and you mate has LL how do you deal with it? If you are not having sex as often as you like do you feel your relationship suffers?


I know these are hard and yes I will answer but I just need a bit more time.

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Registered: 04-06-2007
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 12:37pm
You have my utmost sympathy and respect.
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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 1:08pm
lets just say he has "cleaned up" enough but there is alot more to go to being in a relationship. And learning how to parent.. but I am trying really hard to work on it but its not helping me much. I need someone that can learn to stand beside me no in front or behind me......... i dont know if my dh can do that. He has a lot to learn. But its still hard. Its not easy when things at home are not going well. It affects everything. I have been married to him for seven years this year will be eight.... thats a long time. But his way of living is not mine...... its not easy mixing the two. Anytime you need an ear or want to talk you can email me. Im here alot.
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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 2:03pm

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you all....


I am always amazed to see how many of us are going through the same thing. It is so depressing.

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 6:22pm

ok so when you find one that lives close to me send him my way!!!!


Thank you for the complement, you are too sweet

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 6:25pm
Alpha, I am so sorry you are going threw so much right now especially the hurt. I understand how we can reason ourselves into staying and many times we stay way too long. It is never an easy decission. You will know 100% when the right time is. I am headed that way and fast but I am sure you know, it is hard to make it happen. If you feel you can share more I am here for you or if you don't want to post on the board feel free to email me.
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Fri, 05-16-2008 - 6:29pm
Missy do you think your hubby is trying to work with you? How many children do you have? It is hard to mesh different ways of living. By reading your post, and please dont' be offended but is your hubby involved in any type of drug use? Forgive me if I am way off base, I maybe reading too much between the lines. If he is I understand all to well about that.
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Registered: 01-15-2008
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 6:44pm
If I lived near you, you'd have it! I've always heard that redheds are HOT HOT HOT ;O)
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Registered: 01-06-2007
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 10:26pm


After I read further and realized what's up with these questions, I felt kind of bad for going on about our relationship...yes, it's great, and I am thankful every day, but we've had our bad stuff too. I'm really sorry that things are so tough for you right now.

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 11:52pm
Red heads are very hot in every part of life :) It is nice to know someone would be interested in keeping a girl happy he he.
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Registered: 08-03-2003
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 11:55pm
Elle dont you dare feel bad about being happy with your relationship! I am fine. I have gotten over the sad part now I am just finding my way. We are still living in the same home for now and not sure when we will file for divorce. It is ok I am a very strong person. Thank you for caring:)
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