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Hard questions, try to give imput
| Wed, 05-14-2008 - 5:02pm |
Try if you can to answer this question or maybe just give some ideas.
Is there anything you can think of that helped you be more sexually open?
How were you able to take the fantasies from you mind and bring them into the bedroom? If not the whole fantasy maybe just parts of it?
Do you believe you SO had anything to do with you being able to be sexually open?
If you have a HL and you mate has LL how do you deal with it? If you are not having sex as often as you like do you feel your relationship suffers?
I know these are hard and yes I will answer but I just need a bit more time.


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"Missy do you think your hubby is trying to work with you? How many children do you have? It is hard to mesh different ways of living. By reading your post, and please dont' be offended but is your hubby involved in any type of drug use? Forgive me if I am way off base, I maybe reading too much between the lines. If he is I understand all to well about that."
dh works a little with me not much. I have one she is 12yrs. It takes alot for me to be offended.... but to answer your question, yes dh is clean of his doc. That was a big, huge thing with me. So now we are trying to figure out how to have him be a step parent and a husband in one shot......with a pre teen in the house...... dont get me wrong they get along. He is just "anal" with some of his "rules" and he does not really have to be.
So is your household peaceful or are you still working on that? For the most part we are peaceful......... dh has been clean for about a month now.....so we do have our days, which is expected.
"Hubby is so strict I think he scares her" Oh yes i understand that one. My dh is big, tall and kind of scary looking so he can get a temper. But when he just drives his "rules" home its hard.......
I made a whole lot of mistakes and i am trying to make sure my dd does not make them either. I am more laid back when it comes to certain things......its not worth my stress level. But i have other issues to deal with...... my dd has a step mother who is 24 that needs a play mate and chooses my dd to be that........ and with the abusive ex thats not easy either.....so we are hoping that jr high will get her away from them more.
Missy, I have to add this, many times when a person is newly getting off drugs they have to learn how to deal with life without the drug. Their mind has to heal from the drug abuse and it doesn't happen over night. I am not making excuses. Oh having a step mom that is 24 can be hard enough, I can't imagine the issues you have to deal with. So do you still have some issues with the ex hubby, does he still try to control you? I hope JR high helps you daughter.
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