Has this ever happened to you?

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Has this ever happened to you?
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Fri, 02-27-2009 - 11:32pm

Greetings all! I have a question for everyone because I'm feeling a bit unnerved right now.


I was enjoying some "quality personal time" this evening while I reviewed a fantasy in my mind. It was a fantasy I've had many times before, but tonight for some reason, just as I reached the peak, I burst into tears. I found myself sobbing helplessly even as the pleasure flooded through

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:16am
Yes, I've cried quite often at orgasm. Sometimes it's because of the intense pleasure/pain that I'm going through and my mind and body become overwhelmed. Sometimes it's the intense emotional bond between Master and myself. It can be frightening when you first experience it, because people automatically associate tears with pain, sadness, fear, etc., all negative emotions. Review what you were feeling before that. Were you upset about anything? If not, then I would not worry too much about it. I really do think that it's a combination of the release of pleasure, emotions, endorphins, etc., all wrapped up into one.
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Registered: 03-09-2007
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:34am

I have, but usually there is another reason for it.

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:42am

Thank you sisterhoney. It's good to know I'm not alone. I don't find it surprising that you've experienced this as well. From what I understand from your and lothiriel's descriptions, the intensity of BDSM can

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:51am

Aww, I'm so sorry honey. You're never all alone-

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Registered: 03-09-2007
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 11:31am

Thanks honey, we love you too!!

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Registered: 08-29-2008
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 11:45am
Well we are here for you. Go pour yourself some coffee. (It's too early out there for wine.)
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Registered: 03-09-2007
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 11:54am
Thank you Barrister, thats really nice of you.

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Registered: 08-29-2008
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:02pm
My policy has always been no alcohol before noon-unless it is after midnight and I haven't gone to bed yet. I only stretched this rule once-the morning of my last final in college.
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Registered: 03-09-2007
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:07pm
After a last final sounds like a good reason to stretch the rule!

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Registered: 08-29-2008
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 12:13pm

Yes it was a good reason.


Boy that was a long time ago. 1981-A good year for the most part. Graduated from college and met my first true love.

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