Has this happened to anyone else?

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Registered: 02-06-2014
Has this happened to anyone else?
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Thu, 02-06-2014 - 3:32pm

My Husband and I have been happlily married for nearly 8 years. We have 3 children, one of which is 2 months old. Needless to say our sex life since the birth of our thrid child is not what it used to be. We were visiting my parents for Christmas and were staying in the guest room. Some of my siblings were playing with our kids outside and our 2 month old was sleeping. We figured it would be a good time to grab a quickie.. We were staying in the guestroom and no one was around. I was on top and really getting into it when the family cat somehow managed to open the door. I thought that I had locked the door, but I guess not. Everyone was either outside or on the otherside of the house and the door was only cracked, so I decided not to worry about it. After a while, it was my husbands turn. (He always lets me orgasm first) He was having his turn with me in rear entry or doggie style and was seemed like he was about to cum. I heard a noise and looked up and my mother was shutting the door. We were both on top and totally naked. My mother had not seen me naked since I could remember much less having sex with my husband. I went ahead and let my husband cum and after we got cleaned up and dressed I found my mother outside. I pulled up a chair next to her and apologized. She said "no need to apologize, your married. I understand what it is like with a new child".. I have the most awesome mother, don't I? I started out feeling embarrassed, but she promised to keep it between us. She said just let her know next time and she will put the cat away. 

Has anyone else ever had someone walk in on them and didn't stop? Is it weird for me to feel embarrassed at my mother seeing me naked?

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Registered: 02-10-2014
Mon, 02-10-2014 - 7:49am

Sounds like you have a great mom so i wouldn't feel to embaressed about it you are married and this is just a nomal act of love and these days it is more out in the open then ever!

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Registered: 06-09-2004
Mon, 02-10-2014 - 3:47pm
haha your mom is cool. It sounds like you guys were soooo horny you just weren't going to let anyone get in the way of your moment lol KUDOS!
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Fri, 02-14-2014 - 10:47pm
Awesome mom
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Registered: 05-09-2004
Tue, 02-18-2014 - 10:45am

As you get older and you are faced with having to handle issues with your own children, I hope you'll be as awesome as your mom was with you.  (I'm sure you will be!)  We underestimate parents until we've been through it ourselves.

I had to deal with my 16 yr old daughter walking in on my husband and me.  She was devastated at the time.  But it helped us to be more open about sexuality, and that has come in very handy in the decade since.

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Registered: 03-06-2014
Thu, 03-06-2014 - 4:48pm

I have had a similar experience with my mother as well. She walked in on my Husband and I having sex at our house during a party. We had went off by ourselves and she went looking for us. I wasn't naked though, just bent over taking it from behind with my skirt up and panties down. My back was to the door, but my Husband didn't stop. Are we the only two this has happened to?

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Registered: 03-06-2014
Thu, 03-06-2014 - 4:49pm

Tell me more about your experience with your daughter. How did you get passed it? How much did she actually see? The actual act or just the movements under the covers?