Have male strip clubs gone too far???

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Have male strip clubs gone too far???
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Mon, 03-31-2008 - 4:09am

I saw the following on a web site for a male strip club in New York:


Complete with our Sexy Male Strippers, Gorgeous "Back-Rub" Guys and Hunky Waiters. After performing on stage all of the dancers come around the room

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 12:59pm
Ok anyone that knows me knows I like to highjack a thread with a question. Would you ever consider dating a stripper? You know my answer
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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 1:45pm

Awww...thank you so much!!

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 1:55pm
I should have known with you straight from the hip, life needs to have more fun in it you were a Scorpio just like me!
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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 04-01-2008 - 2:04pm

hehehe....your 10 days after me!!

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Wed, 04-02-2008 - 1:49am

I appreciate the responses and the views of the women on this board. Do you think these women are just "playing" or do you think if allowed at the club women would actually perform oral sex on the man if he took his "member" out? If not in public, do you think they would in a private lap dance room at the club if allowed?


Has there always been this much contact at the male strip shows

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Wed, 04-02-2008 - 8:00am

Malabi, would you please fill in some of your profile so we can get to know you? WE always love to have new members and new friends. Ok this is my thought, first these women are going to a strip club, I am sure there are some there that like Faboome may have got dragged there and are not in to it. But lets at least say the ones that participate are there because they want to be. Do I think these women would give oral for real, yes. I was watching a show the other day and it had female strippers on it. They took a panel of women to go to a female strip club just to get their reaction. Now first the female strippers said they have the most problems with the women who come to the clubs touching them. I was surprised by this, that women at a female strip club are more grabby then the men? But it is true. Many women are very open sexually and if you put them in the right situation lord knows what will happen. Now let me give you my reasons for not going to a male strip club. First it is a very high sexually charged room with attractive men trying their best to get your attention and going past normal every day contact. Do I find it sexy to have a man sticking his member in my face normally not so much but in a sexually charged room, I would get turned on. I think I watched the same HBO special the one on male strippers. Now personally I find the behavor offensive and that is why I dont' go to the strip clubs, I would not want to be one of those women who in the heat of the moment do something I would regret in the morning. I would think less of myself of letting a complete strange man hump all over me even if at the time it seemed like a good idea. Now to the women that do this , well good for them, they know what they like and go get it. I would much rather be with a man that hadn't just gotten felt up by the women next to me. It seems really gross to me.


Do I think Heidi's plan to open a male brothel would work, probably. I dont' know how successful it would be . I sure wouldn't go. I think the majority of women wouldn't go because usually we could find a man willing to have sex with no strings attached but women might want a man to treat her a certian way and feel they could only find that in a brothel, not sure .


There are many men out there that will have multiple girlfriends that they sleep with at the same time. Most women dont want to know that the man they are sleeping with is sleeping with other women. So going to a brothel might be a huge turn off. I never understood how men could go to a brothel knowing the women they are with may have had quite a few others that day! Malabi what do you think about that? I guess they don't care. I often got confused on how a man could go to a prostatute knowing she had been doing things with other men, and many times the women don't look clean at all. I guess no matter if it is a man or a woman using the services it takes a certian type of person to do this.

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Wed, 04-02-2008 - 8:46am

thank you for the compliment earlier for starters.


when it comes to brothals its one of those things that personally i wouldn't do.

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Registered: 09-12-2007
Wed, 04-02-2008 - 11:10pm

It's been at least 5 or 6 years since I've seen male strippers.


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Registered: 03-30-2000
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 1:01pm

I think the site you're looking for is partyhardcore (dot) com.

I can't help thinking it's at least partially staged, I have trouble believing even a semi-drunk gal would decide to go down on a random guy on stage, much less the bent-over-panties-at-knees full-on IC the site shows. Nice fantasy for the guys (get a few drinks in a woman and she goes crazy), but doubtful it's all real.

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Registered: 04-03-2008
Thu, 04-03-2008 - 1:59pm

I'd like to chime in here. I went to the one that has the beds in it. very nice place and they brag that it was featured on sex in the city a while back.

the pics are taken out of context. the majority of the girls there are celebrating something like a bachelorette party or bday and their friends are out to embarrass them. almost like a right of passage. very funny and fun. its not the place to be romanced, but a place to scream, laugh and get wild with strange guys in a bumping and grinding kind of way.

the place is called duvet on w21st street nyc
and the show is hunkmania ( www.hunkmania.com )