Have you every thought/fantasized abo...

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 9:56am

Have you every thought/fantasized about being the other sex? Luv to know why too



  • Women - No never thought about being a guy
  • Woman - I wonder how it would feel to give rather than receive
  • Men - No way me a chick?
  • Men - Yes, I wonder how sex feels for a woman


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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:33pm

lol.. I know how much men hate hot so I was being nice.


Yup, I was in AZ and Washington State last week. Got home Saturday night. I loved, loved, loved the weather in AZ. It was mid 90's during the days. Had a great time. WA, the weather wasn't as good but I still had a great time there.


How was your time away? Did you do something fun there?

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:34pm

lol....

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:41pm

Well my mother disagrees with just about every choice I've made. She thinks I am a horrible sinner and that since I'm a pagan, I must worship the devil. She actually told me one day that I'm the Devil's mistress lol..she hates the tattoos and the heavy metal music..my sister told her about the BDSM so she thinks I'm a self mutilating depressed woman who needs heavy therapy and medication lol, she's told me she thinks I'm a slut and a bad role model for my son. It hurt me for a long time, but I got to the point where I just let it roll off my back.


As for my dad, he loves me the way I am. It doesnt matter to him that I'm not a Christian and have tattoos. He thinks I have a good moral compass and have done really well in life. I was always closer to him growing up and my sister was closer to my mom.


As for my sister being into things I'm not privy to, could be but I kinda doubt it. She has always been one of those people who never really found an idenity of her own. She kinda morphed into whomever she was hanging out with. I've been the one constant in her life, so she tells me alot. Shes a churchgoer, dresses like she jumped out of the J. Crew catalog and listens to Top 40 radio. She gets creeped out talking about sex lol..so we're quite different..but you never can tell `grin~

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:43pm
Hehe we did when we were little, not so much anymore

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:44pm

I spent a week in Arizona several years ago on business. The weather is fantastic, I agree. I have a good friend who lives out there and he keeps bugging me to move soon. So far I've resisted the temptation.


Glad you enjoyed yourself.....I did too. We visited my daughter and her hubby in San Francisco, then rented a car and drove up the coast to Portland. It was a beautiful, but long, drive. Got to see many red elk and tons of other wildlife up there. Plus the redwoods.....damn those are some huge trees.


Met 2 couples from Scotland one night in a tavern......meant to stay for one drink.....I ended up closing the joint with them......not sure if I got naked and danced on the bar or not....everything was fuzzy about midnight...lol.


I keep thinking I'm too old for that kind of behavior, but then I get this sudden rush of water from the fountain of youth and I think I'm a teeny bopper again.....geez.


I did win $400 at a casino in northern California.....the indians didn't get my money honey!!

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:48pm

Sorry to hear about your mom! You seem to be an awesome person and a good mom- don't let anyone tell you otherwise. My parents had a bit of a time accepting me as well- they thought I was "odd" in high school...little do they know I still am!

WOW- you and your twin seem to be total opposites- geez, top 40?

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:48pm

I keep thinking I'm too old for that kind of behavior, but then I get this sudden rush of water from the fountain of youth and I think I'm a teeny bopper again.....geez.


Remember you're NEVER TOO OLD!!!

 



  


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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:52pm

Yeah she quit talking to me last January..the day I had my hysterectomy was the day my sister had her child custody hearing and my mom thought I was being selfish for not showing up to testify in court...whatever lol..it was after that that I was done with worrying about it. My dad always makes a point to tell me how proud of me he is, no matter what


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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:56pm

SMH- oh well...one day she'll get over it and understand that you are who you are, and won't compromise for anyone.

I had a similar situation with my grandma- she stopped loving me unconditionally after I partied a bit too hard in college and lost a scholarship, and stopped talking to me recently after I told her not to offer her opinions about my baby and my DF (she's mad that I'm not married and got pregnant "too young", although she had her first at 15).

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 3:57pm

IMO, your mother has "issues", not you. Sorry she talks to you like that.....shame on her for doing that to her daughter. Isn't it weird that people can be so quick to be judgmental towards others? If you're doing something that makes you feel good about yourself, you're a good mother to your son, you're a productive member of "society" (whatever that means), why is it that just because you don't attend church or have been inked, a mother would be so hateful?


Keep being happy about living life the way you want.....nobody should be able to question how another elects to live their life. Normally the ones who do that are very hypocritical.


I'm thinkin' sis likes to dress up as a little girl in private......and pretends she's Shirley Temple as she gets it on with 3 different guys!!!!! That's just my take on it....lol. Course, I'm somewhat of a sick puppy my damn self, so take that with a grain of salt.

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