High Heels Hurt Back

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High Heels Hurt Back
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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 4:10pm
One of my dates bought me 6" high heels to wear as part of our foreplay. I didn't want to be a spoil sport so I went ahead and did it because he wanted so badly to see me wearing them, and they were actually very sexy. However, for the next few days, my back, with something out of kilter, was hurting pretty badly. What kind of heels could I wear that might not hurt my back so much? Any websites you can recommend? I hate searching and searching...
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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 11:43pm

How could anyone misunderstand what I wrote? I only wore heels that high as foreplay for sex--to show off. I'm not insane


I did not misunderstand what you wrote I was just adding a comment. As for finding high heels 6+ inches I do not think you will find anything. I am sure there is a plethora of shoes out there and hopefully there is something out there that will not hurt your back. It will take time and reserach to find something either visiting specialty boutique( Stripper Stores, dance stores, adult stores) online stores. Or here is an ideal. You and your friend go out to some strip clubs and look at what some of the other dancers are wearing. Be sure that you both tip the dancers who are wearing heels that you like. Then when they are off the stage, you go talk to the dancer and tell her how much you like her heels and ask her if they bother her back, and ask her where she shops.Thank her for the information and be sure and tip her a few bucks


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Sat, 08-30-2008 - 9:04am
the shoes have to support your feet. the small heels but pressure on your spine. you need to find a shoe that has a big (meaning fat)heel that supports your ankles. (boots maybe) or learn to wear them on a regular basis.. It is difficult but learning to walk and support you body and weight on that small heel will help it takes time. Another suggestion you might look into is a shoe that is fully supported... Good luck.
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Registered: 09-12-2007
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 9:41am

Hello.


I would suggest getting the 6+ inch high heels that have a 2-2 1/2 inch front base with them.


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Registered: 11-09-2006
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 10:09am
thank you! I really appreciate people's help.
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Registered: 05-04-2008
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 11:22am
As Inquiring Mind said, platform shoes that have a substantial lift in the front wont cause a lot of pain and you can go really really high.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 5:23pm
Now that I can handle without breaking anything.. I hope..

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 6:59pm
Six inch heels are pretty high. Can you shop in person and try shoes on?
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Registered: 08-03-2008
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 8:07pm
I have never worn 6 inch heels but I do wear 4 inch on an almost everyday basis. I worked my way up. Starting with only a one or two inch and as Missybee suggested w a fat heel. Also w boots as the heel started getting higher. I can now walk in a 4 in thin heeled, sexy shoe comfortably and now when I wear heels I won't wear anything less then a 3 and 3/4 in.
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Registered: 11-09-2006
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 2:02pm
That backache got me so worried that I think I'll get really tall platforms. After all, I think it's the purpose to be taller than he is (the man who wanted to see me in high heels). He's not so tall. I suspect he wants me to seem taller than he is.
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