how do you ask around for a threesome?

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Registered: 04-28-2008
how do you ask around for a threesome?
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:19pm
Im trying something new with my husband, so we decided on a threesome but now i don't know how to get it started...i feel like my friends will stop being friends if i ask around or make suggestions
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Registered: 04-20-2008
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:32pm
First thing is to have

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Registered: 01-08-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:41pm
Have you experimented at all in your sex life?
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Registered: 06-24-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 6:11pm

"CAUTION MMF & MFF fantasies in that order are the #1&2 relationship killers. Stats as of 11-2007"
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Where did those "stats" come from?
I would say money troubles, infidelity, work stress, lack of communication and about 50 other issues would be before threesomes on reasons couples split up.

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Registered: 06-24-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 6:18pm

What type are you looking for MMF or FFM? The MMF would be easier to find but I'm guessing you want a FFM since you mentioned your friends. I would tread very lightly on asking them, they may get offended or you may have issues dealing with them afterwards. Be as sure as you can before asking, hint around in discussions to see what their views are on threesomes. You also have to figure out who is doing what with who and make sure everyone is OK with it.
The strip club is a good, safe idea to test your feelings about it. You will get a visual and can have some no strings interaction with a girl for yourself and partner.

Good luck and be safe, my wife and I have been looking for a safe F to try it with but no luck yet.

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Registered: 06-24-2007
Mon, 04-28-2008 - 6:21pm

I personally don't think I could watch my husband do anything with another woman though. To me girls kissing/touching etc. is different.
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My wife said the same thing until one night her GF came onto her and they made out, then the GF and I made out- after my wife said it was OK. Since then she has been much more open to try a threesome. It really seemed to pique her curiosity.




Edited 4/28/2008 6:22 pm ET by boosfla
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 7:37pm

As it relates to couples living out their fantasies.