Husband asks my close friends and sisters if they think he is bisexual or gay?

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Registered: 04-06-2012
Husband asks my close friends and sisters if they think he is bisexual or gay?
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Fri, 04-06-2012 - 5:34am
Hello all,

I recently found out from one of my closest friends that my husband has been having lengthy conversations online with her, and quite a few other women. Apparently he has been asking them if they have ever wondered if he is gay or bisexual. I also recently found out he has asked one of my sisters. Should I be worried? It seems like he has done this alot with mutual female friends..

From what he tells me, he gets alot of gay teasing, especially at work. From his family members, and i have teased him before, but for good reason. I discovered he had been looking at the casual encounters ads on craigslist, searching for "bisexual couples". I also found out he has talked to A LOT of females, asking them what they think. The most recent one was my sister, who told him that girls he has talked to came to her, wondering about him..thoughts?
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Registered: 12-25-2006

Hi worried wife.

You and he need to sit down for a serious talk about this.

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Registered: 04-06-2012
When I found the Craigslist thing, he denied at first that he went there on purpose. He started crying and told me he was curious about what type of People post on that site. We have been married almost 4 years. In the bedroom, hes told me he wants me to dominate. Since the original Post, I've discovered he's talked to lots of women about it. Almost 50.
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Registered: 04-06-2012
When I found the Craigslist thing, he denied at first that he went there on purpose. He started crying and told me he was curious about what type of People post on that site. We have been married almost 4 years. In the bedroom, hes told me he wants me to dominate. Since the original Post, I've discovered he's talked to lots of women about it. Almost 50. My suspicions are he's always been more fem and very sensitive. Owns a few dildos that I walked in on him sucking once.
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Registered: 08-01-2006

Personally, I wouldn't like the thought of him talking/asking other females about this. He should be talking to you and maybe even seeing a therapist.

I do have a question though... If he is bi-sexual, how would you feel about him and the marriage?



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Registered: 11-18-2011
This story keeps getting better and better!
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Registered: 10-10-2010

I don't want to negate everything NhGal said, but let's throw in a guy perspective here.

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Registered: 04-21-2008

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