I cannot stop fantasizing about...

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Registered: 08-29-2011
I cannot stop fantasizing about...
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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 5:58am

The amazingly hot jock I went to high school with. Well, i thought he was a jock, but it turns out he's now Dr. XYz, Ph.D!! YUM!

My fantasy is this: We run into each other at the bar in our hometown. He walks over to me, we chat amicably for a bit, but then he leans in and whispers something dirty and seductive in my ear. At which point we leave together and find ourselves naked, hot and sweaty all tangled up in the bed sheets of my hotel room. Throughout the scene, he talks to me. Dirty things, sexy things, romantic things.... During the course of...well....intercourse, we are constantly touching, kissing and pressing our bodies closer and closer, as tightly together as we can.

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Registered: 08-07-2011
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 6:00am
I'm gonna PM you when I get to work in a couple hours, love. We need to chat :)
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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 6:04am
I'll be working, but I'll check in. :)
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 8:00am

Nothing wrong with fantasies. Questions.... How long have you been married? Do you really see yourself cheating on your husband? Are there any children?



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Registered: 05-23-2011
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 9:38am

This sounds like a pretty detailed and rather descriptive fantasy!

If it were not for fantasies then

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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 9:40am

Hmm.... I don't see myself having sex with Dr. XYZ, Ph.D; but I can't say for sure that I wouldn't, given the chance. Especially since my sex life at home has gone down the toilet completely.

DH and I have been married for 4 years, but together for 7. We have 3 children together, and he has a child from a previous marriage.

As far as Dr XYZ, Ph.D is concerned, on paper, he appears to be the perfect guy. And I always felt like I blew it. I chose not to pursue an affair with him for many reasons, but mainly because I didn't feel that he would be getting a fair deal.

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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 9:43am

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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 10:01am
Does sound like a hot fantasy :)

I'm glad you didn't act on it though. I can tell that you are hot and quite desirable (or at least early indicators are good) but the fact that he knows you are married and would email you stuff that would lead you to be with him makes him not the right guy..

Still fun fantasy, and good to know you got it. Sorry to know that your hubby isn't taking advantage of it :) I could never understand that, but I did have a 10 yr dry spell with the missus that I am hopefully just now pulling out of, so I can appreciate how you are feeling.

And I loved the "course of ... well.. intercourse" line ;)
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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 10:23am

Just be smart and careful with the decision you make.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 10:23am

Have you tried talking to DH about the lack of sex?



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Registered: 05-23-2011
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 10:43am

This is well put.

When you are not having any sex

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