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I'll take potpourri for $1000 Alex....
| Tue, 09-09-2008 - 9:53am |
Good Morning Everyone!?!?!
How's everyone???
| Tue, 09-09-2008 - 9:53am |
Good Morning Everyone!?!?!
How's everyone???
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I think alot of women get bogged down in emotions when it comes to sex. We're programmed from a
too much emphasis on duty, and not enough on pleasure for everyone involved. I just think sex works best when each person looks out for the satisfaction of the other, and if both trust the other to be looking out for their best intersts it will end up working out in the end.
I really need to start investigating paganism and this sex as a celebration lol
It's that trust that is never a given, and once it's fully entrenched it opens alot of doors for the future of your relationship.
So do they get embarrassed or worried if they grab your chest? do you take advantage of their momentary loss of concentration?
lol. I don't think there are too many guys who aren't into 'Scandinavian Chicks' lol.
Hehe....oh yes...pagans love sex...to some its even a ritual...to this day in Great Britain modern druids still hold a centuries old ritual of a huge orgy on the winter solstice lol...as for Heathens, like myself, we believe sex, while it is for procreation, is also for pure physical pleasure, and if everyone is in agreement with whats going to happen, theres nothing to stop us from doing it.
That trust is a spectacular thing, and one we've really worked hard for. We couldn't participate in the D/s things we do without it. Someone would get hurt, and neither of us wants that. Unfortunatly I think there are alot of couples out there who never get to that type of trust, which is a shame because it closes alot of doors.
Some of the guys get embarassed if they accidentaly grab my chest or end up with me on top of them, straddling them (amoung other postions we get ourselves into) But others (such as the friend i mentioned) it doesn't bother them at all, their might be a devious look or smile, and theres definatly (with all of them) that moment of lost concentration, which I always use to my advantage. Sometimes I'll throw out a catty comment like "you like that don't you?" and then faces turn bright red, its hysterical to me. lol
Lothiriel
Our psychological reality, which lies below the surface, frightens us because it endlessly surprises us and drives us in a direction which society's rules and organizations define as wrong or dangerous
~Anais Nin
This is exactly what I believe sex should be for the people doing it.
Unfortunately I have to agree with you. Trust is an illusive component in many relationships. and i think it can be the catalyst to a downfall down the road. Without it, the cohesion of all the little things that make a relationship last is gone.
its awesome to know you could kick someones ass if need be
Please don't ever let me get on the wrong side of you.....
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Lothiriel
Our psychological reality, which lies below the surface, frightens us because it endlessly surprises us and drives us in a direction which society's rules and organizations define as wrong or dangerous
~Anais Nin
this is always good to hear lol
I have wrassled with a few women and there might have been a couple of normally inappropriate holds...never lost my position though. So I guess it was win win for me lol.
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