I'll take potpourri for $1000 Alex....

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I'll take potpourri for $1000 Alex....
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Tue, 09-09-2008 - 9:53am

Good Morning Everyone!?!?!


How's everyone???

The Sassy One

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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 2:46pm

I think alot of women get bogged down in emotions when it comes to sex. We're programmed from a

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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 2:47pm
Hehe...my little one is testing

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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 3:10pm

I think alot of women get bogged down in emotions when it comes to sex


too much emphasis on duty, and not enough on pleasure for everyone involved. I just think sex works best when each person looks out for the satisfaction of the other, and if both trust the other to be looking out for their best intersts it will end up working out in the end.



for me since as a pagan we revere sex as a celebration


I really need to start investigating paganism and this sex as a celebration lol



We've worked hard at it and are completely comfortable with each other and have an unconditional trust.


It's that trust that is never a given, and once it's fully entrenched it opens alot of doors for the future of your relationship.



I've always been one of those girls who was always "just one of the guys"...sometimes I swear they forget I'm a woman. Well until someone accidentaly grabs my chest while we're doing a technique lol


So do they get embarrassed or worried if they grab your chest? do you take advantage of their momentary loss of concentration?



he likes Scandinavian chicks lol


lol. I don't think there are too many guys who aren't into 'Scandinavian Chicks' lol.






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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 3:18pm

Hehe....oh yes...pagans love sex...to some its even a ritual...to this day in Great Britain modern druids still hold a centuries old ritual of a huge orgy on the winter solstice lol...as for Heathens, like myself, we believe sex, while it is for procreation, is also for pure physical pleasure, and if everyone is in agreement with whats going to happen, theres nothing to stop us from doing it.


That trust is a spectacular thing, and one we've really worked hard for. We couldn't participate in the D/s things we do without it. Someone would get hurt, and neither of us wants that. Unfortunatly I think there are alot of couples out there who never get to that type of trust, which is a shame because it closes alot of doors.


Some of the guys get embarassed if they accidentaly grab my chest or end up with me on top of them, straddling them (amoung other postions we get ourselves into) But others (such as the friend i mentioned) it doesn't bother them at all, their might be a devious look or smile, and theres definatly (with all of them) that moment of lost concentration, which I always use to my advantage. Sometimes I'll throw out a catty comment like "you like that don't you?" and then faces turn bright red, its hysterical to me. lol

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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 3:41pm

we believe sex, while it is for procreation, is also for pure physical pleasure, and if everyone is in agreement with whats going to happen, theres nothing to stop us from doing it


This is exactly what I believe sex should be for the people doing it.



Unfortunatly I think there are alot of couples out there who never get to that type of trust, which is a shame because it closes alot of doors.


Unfortunately I have to agree with you. Trust is an illusive component in many relationships. and i think it can be the catalyst to a downfall down the road. Without it, the cohesion of all the little things that make a relationship last is gone.



theres definatly (with all of them) that moment of lost concentration, which I always use to my advantage.





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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 4:07pm

its awesome to know you could kick someones ass if need be


Please don't ever let me get on the wrong side of you.....

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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 4:15pm
Hehe...well its probably not a secret that I adore men. For all sorts of reasons. But they're also delicious fun to play with like that. ~devilish grin~. I learned to use my being a woman to my advantage with them long ago and they fall for it every time, hook, line and sinker lol. The embarassement is quite endearing actually, lets me know that there is a respect between us when something like that happens.

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~Anais Nin

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Wed, 09-10-2008 - 4:52pm

well its probably not a secret that I adore men. For all sorts of reasons


this is always good to hear lol



I learned to use my being a woman to my advantage with them long ago and they fall for it every time, hook, line and sinker lol.


I have wrassled with a few women and there might have been a couple of normally inappropriate holds...never lost my position though. So I guess it was win win for me lol.






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