Interest in girl-girl or 3-sum fantasies?

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Interest in girl-girl or 3-sum fantasies?
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Sun, 06-12-2011 - 4:19pm

I've been wondering how women (in general) feel about being with other women, either as girl-on-girl, or in a threesome where the man shares his woman with a girl, instead of the woman sharing her man with a girl. I think most guys have some form of threesome fantasy... but where some guys only think about having two women doing him, others (like me) are more excited by what happens between the women. So, I'll start with a poll - pick the phrase that best describes your interest in being with a woman, or write your own if none of these fit.

0) I have absolutely no interest - never did that, never fantasize about it, I'd dump a man if he asked for it.

1) Not for me - never did it, never thought about it, I'd decline (but forgive, not dump) a man who asked, I'd dump a man who insisted.

2) Barely curious - I've never done that, probably never will, when I think about doing that it turns me off, I hope my man never asks me to do it.

3) Mildly curious - I've never done it, but thinking about it turns me on... I might have tasted myself... I'd do it if he asked, but I wouldn't do anything to make it happen... it'll probably always be just a fantasy.

4) Barely experienced - thinking about it does not excite me, but I did it because he asked - I'd rather not do it again.

5) Pleasantly surprised - I never thought about it (or thinking turned me off), but I did it when he asked - it was better than I expected, and I hope to do it again.

6) Slightly experienced - thinking about it excites me a little, I tried it (with or without a man present) because I wanted to, I might want to do it again.

7) Fairly experienced - thinking about it excites me a lot, I've done it several times on my own initiative (maybe I've seduced women), I want to do it again, I'm sure I will.

8) Mildly enthusiastic - I've never done it, probably never will on my own - but thinking about it makes me hot, I enjoy tasting myself on my man, I hope my man asks me to do it with another woman.

9) Fairly enthusiastic - I've never done it, I would probably respond favorably to an interested woman, I really want my man to ask me to do it.

10) Very enthusiastic - I've never done it, but I'm keeping an eye out for the right woman to approach, I'd dump him if he disapproved.

11) Solidly bisexual - I've done it with women and men, I enjoy both about equally.

12) Converted lesbian - I used to be with men, but since I tried women I prefer women exclusively.

13) (bad luck - skipped)

14) Confirmed lesbian - I've always been interested in women.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 06-13-2011 - 9:30am

Hi and welcome.

My response would be between 1 and 2. I wouldn't necessarily dump a guy if he asked me to do this, but if he kept hounding me, then I probably would. It's not something I am interested in doing at all. I don't share very well.



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Registered: 05-04-2007
Mon, 06-13-2011 - 4:19pm

6) Slightly experienced - thinking about it excites me a little, I tried it (with or without a man present) because I wanted to, - mostly

I might want to do it again. - not really

& a piece of #8

8) Mildly enthusiastic -

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Mon, 06-13-2011 - 7:44pm

9.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Tue, 06-14-2011 - 6:48pm

1) Not for me - never did it, never thought about it, I'd decline (but forgive, not dump) a man who asked, I'd dump a man who insisted.

I might add that if I were dating a man who wanted to bring another woman into the relationship....I wouldn't dump him but I would break off the dating and explain my reasons for doing so.

Mrs P

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Wed, 06-15-2011 - 10:02am

I wouldn't dump him ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but I would break off the dating

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 10:38am

Well, none of those fit exactly......

So, I would say:

Inexperienced, if the circumstances were just right, I would only do it as the 'other' woman ~ I'm not sharing my partner with another woman.

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Wed, 06-15-2011 - 1:52pm

I was wondering the same thing.

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Wed, 06-15-2011 - 10:48pm
tulips-together wrote:

I wouldn't dump him ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but I would break off the dating

Mrs P

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 10:51pm
liberty75 wrote:

I was wondering the same thing.

Mrs P

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 9:30am

Ahhh I see

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha

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