Is it possible to not fantasize during masturbation?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2008
Is it possible to not fantasize during masturbation?
5
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 4:16pm

My wife tells me she rarely fantasizes when she masturbates.  I find this to be unreal, i can't imagine not thinking of something sexual when I do it.  The mind is such an important part of the sexual experience...your thoughts?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-03-2007
Tue, 09-11-2012 - 9:34am

I guess it depends on how you define "fantasize." I watch porn, but, I don't think of myself in the porn, I don't think I want to have sex with the girls in the porn or wish I was there watching. I just simply look at the naked women and men having sex and get excited.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-1998
raining_ivy wrote:

 I liked to fantasize, and still do.  I enjoy rummaging through my fantasies and choosing one to wallow in.  

Ivy


Me too, Ivy, me too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2011
You mean like I'm in a forest, in a huge canopied tent, tons of pillows, 10 beautiful women, naked, and the only thing they want, is to pleasure me.

..............nahhh...........
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2009
Tue, 08-28-2012 - 9:53pm

I alwasy fantasize during MB.  One "exception", is when I got my first vibrator.  The first few times I used it, I didnt fantasize. It was too powerful, although it did bring me to orgasm.  Weird as it might sound, I'm not sure I liked that. I didnt use it alot. I liked to fantasize, and still do.  I enjoy rummaging through my fantasies and choosing one to wallow in.  

Ivy

 


 


<