It's August.. Time to sign in..

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Registered: 08-01-2006
It's August.. Time to sign in..
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Fri, 08-01-2008 - 7:33am

Come on lurkers, and regulars.... It's a new month, so that means it's time to tell us....


What would you like us to call you?


Any fantasies fulfilled this past month? If so, what?


Married, Single, Taken?


Age:


Your gender?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:07pm
of course anytime. I am always here. Anytime to talk to someone helps.
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:07pm

CB,


If I may be so bold, my recommendation would be to certainly, definitely, by all means WAIT!! A lack of attention and romance is what ruins a lot of marriages, mine included. It defines everything in a relationship.


You have no idea who I am, nor I you.....but if you just allow your heart and your head to sort things through, you'll understand better why some here have told you to not jump into this if it's not what you want in a relationship....it will, without any doubt, only get colder and less affectionate as the years go on.


There are so many people out in this world that will gladly take you by the hand and lead you to a romantic life if you let them.....8 years and he can't get it right? Ain't ever gonna happen I'm afraid. No doubt he's a great guy....you love him as you said.....sometimes great guys make awful partners. Good luck to you butterfly. Spread those wings and fly away!


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:16pm
that sounds very typical. Sounds as if he is confused too.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:20pm
He may be confused too I just don't know how to go about trying to make it work or fixing it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:21pm
if I was to tell you that me and my dh have talked about our situation. And he tells me im not affectionate enough to him. And I tell him that he is not emotionally supportive towards what i need..... and we were to get married soon what would you tell me?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:23pm
i dont know the whole background but after eight years something else is going on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:26pm
I would probably tell you to wait
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:28pm
Hmmm, since she kicked you and it hurt, she needs to rub it to make it feel better....

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:29pm

I have asked him if something else is going on but he says nothing is. He just doesn't feel like he needs to do that anymore.


I'm 22 and dealing with this. He is only 24 and doesn't feel like he needs to be affectionate anymore.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Fri, 08-01-2008 - 4:31pm
i think you just answered your delima... now you need to figure out how this relationship is going to either end or keep up

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