Ladies Question. Male Escort

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Ladies Question. Male Escort
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:22am

I know it is a fantasy of some ladies is to be a call girl. I guess this may be the whole sex with a stranger thing. But is it a fantasy of yours to hire a male escort?

I have been married for over 20 years to a wonderful, beautiful, extremely sexually shy DW. We recently have started to role play and she has never expressed an interest in this scenario and I am usually the one that initiates the role play. She is usually very shy when we start but by the end she really gets into it. I thought about the male escort because I believe she would have a hard time expressing herself as a call girl, whereas I am a little better at this and could take charge.

Looking forward to your opinions? Thanks.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 11:33am


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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 11:34am

Well, me personally, that isn't one of my fantasies. I would never do something like that. I like to at least know a little something about a man I'm going to be with.


I'm all up for if you think it's something she'll have fun with, then go for it!

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 11:42am

Why pay for it when i can get it for free? LOL ~wink~


In all seriousness though, this isn't a fantasy of mine.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 1:29pm

The problem is I have no idea if it's something she would enjoy. She fantasizes very little (that she admits) so I usually have to create the scenarios. We have played pick-up in a bar, but that was just two people who met, flirted and had mind-blowing sex. Not sure how she would feel about either being the payer or the payee of this role-play.

If you ladies don't have a fantasy of hiring a male escort, do you have a fantasy of being an escort for the night?

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 1:41pm

I don't have a fantasy about being an escort...it does nothing for me....nor do I care to hire an escort for myself.


Despite the absurdity for me in that...there is an element of pursuit and an element of attraction that is IMHO important to me. I think it's negated in calling an 800 number and asking them to send over guy#6.


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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 2:06pm

My fantasies do not include a complete stranger.


Well, why don't you ask her if she'd like it. Or better yet, each of you write out a few different fantasies, put them in a hat, pull one out and play it out. Of course you both need to read them to be sure that they will be acceptable.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 2:07pm
Pssst... guy #13 is a lot better....lol...

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 2:52pm
nhgal, she has told me she doesn't fantasize hardly at all.
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:10pm
And it's very possible then that she doesn't. Maybe she's just so happily married to you



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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:22pm

I don't doubt that she doesn't fantasize. But it has been like that her whole life, even before me. She told me once that she likes "sameness". Well, I like variety and have been trying to get her to expand her horizons some. In the last year or so she has loosened up some. We have played out a couple of fantasies and she even played out where she blindfolded me and pretended her and another women pleasured me. That was a HUGH step for her and I really appreciated it. And I let her know how much I appreciated it.


The few times we have done this she was hesistant at first, but really got into it and we both had a great time.

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