Ladies Question. Male Escort
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Ladies Question. Male Escort
| Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:22am |
I know it is a fantasy of some ladies is to be a call girl. I guess this may be the whole sex with a stranger thing. But is it a fantasy of yours to hire a male escort?
I have been married for over 20 years to a wonderful, beautiful, extremely sexually shy DW. We recently have started to role play and she has never expressed an interest in this scenario and I am usually the one that initiates the role play. She is usually very shy when we start but by the end she really gets into it. I thought about the male escort because I believe she would have a hard time expressing herself as a call girl, whereas I am a little better at this and could take charge.
Looking forward to your opinions? Thanks.

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Well, me personally, that isn't one of my fantasies. I would never do something like that. I like to at least know a little something about a man I'm going to be with.
I'm all up for if you think it's something she'll have fun with, then go for it!
Why pay for it when i can get it for free? LOL ~wink~
In all seriousness though, this isn't a fantasy of mine.
Lothiriel
Death: You get what everyone gets....you get a lifetime.....
The problem is I have no idea if it's something she would enjoy. She fantasizes very little (that she admits) so I usually have to create the scenarios. We have played pick-up in a bar, but that was just two people who met, flirted and had mind-blowing sex. Not sure how she would feel about either being the payer or the payee of this role-play.
If you ladies don't have a fantasy of hiring a male escort, do you have a fantasy of being an escort for the night?
I don't have a fantasy about being an escort...it does nothing for me....nor do I care to hire an escort for myself.
Despite the absurdity for me in that...there is an element of pursuit and an element of attraction that is IMHO important to me. I think it's negated in calling an 800 number and asking them to send over guy#6.
Mrs P
My fantasies do not include a complete stranger.
Well, why don't you ask her if she'd like it. Or better yet, each of you write out a few different fantasies, put them in a hat, pull one out and play it out. Of course you both need to read them to be sure that they will be acceptable.
I don't doubt that she doesn't fantasize. But it has been like that her whole life, even before me. She told me once that she likes "sameness". Well, I like variety and have been trying to get her to expand her horizons some. In the last year or so she has loosened up some. We have played out a couple of fantasies and she even played out where she blindfolded me and pretended her and another women pleasured me. That was a HUGH step for her and I really appreciated it. And I let her know how much I appreciated it.
The few times we have done this she was hesistant at first, but really got into it and we both had a great time.
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