Ladies....have you ever had "young ma...

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Registered: 01-29-2005
Ladies....have you ever had "young ma...
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Tue, 03-08-2005 - 5:27pm

Ladies....have you ever had "young man" fantasies?



  • Yes...I like the idea of a much younger man.
  • No...I find it highly inappropriate to date younger men.


You will be able to change your vote.


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2003
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 5:58pm
I dont have any fansites involing younger men,but I dont find it in apporoprite either,so i cant vote,lol
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2005
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 7:40pm
Ok.....I so I could not box you in on your answer? :-) Thanks for your comment though.
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Registered: 03-08-2005
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 11:05am
I've actually never fantasied about a younger man, but at the age of 33 I met a young hottie who was 9 years younger than me. I started spending time with him for "fun" of it, for the passion -- with absolutely no expectations of a relationship. Surprisingly, he turned out to be the most fun, honest, considerate, devoted, mature, romantic, generous man I have ever known!!! It's now nearly 2 years later and we'll be married this summer. So ladies, if you're 30-something and single, be open-minded, because I'm not the only woman who has discovered that some 20-something men may be far better matches (and catches!) for us independent, career-minded ladies over 30.
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Registered: 12-23-2004
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 11:52am
On the flip side, I've always (since about age 14) fantasized about older women. When I was in high school I always fantasized about my next door neighbor who was in her mid 20s. In college I fantasized about some of my professors who were probably 15-20 years older. I always enjoyed looking at older women in business suits (still a weakness of mine). I did date a girl 7 years older than me when I was 19. That was a wild couple of months. Don't know why, just always have fantasized about older women, though I have had my share of fantasies of women my own age.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 12:46am

My fantasy isn't so much a younger man as it is an inexperienced man who's eager to learn.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 9:44pm
same with me and older men. since i was about 13 or 14 ive had fantasies of men in there 30 and 40s mostly. keep in mind im only 18 as well...
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Registered: 09-07-2003
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 12:26pm

I can't vote! :(

I dont *like* the idea of a younger man...as in, for me, I've never been attracted to or fantasied about a younger man. (Of course, Im only 26 now, so "Younger" would be "young") In fact, I dont even like to date guys a year or 2 younger then me...even my *own* age I usually end up not likeing them. (My SO of 7 months is 11 years older, actually.)

THat being said, I have Nothing inappropriate about having fantasies about younger men. There are a LOT of things that people fantasize about that I dont get turned on by..doesnt make it inappropriate. Just makes me boring. ;)

So. Im mentally voting for "No, I've never had young man fantasies" :)

Teresa
http://www.affordingpickles.blogspot.com

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:16pm

Hehe I learned long ago that a poll always needs to have "other" as the last option - but there is an exception to every rule.


I would have voted other.


Jennie

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