Loves to watch girlfriend with other men??

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Registered: 09-26-2013
Loves to watch girlfriend with other men??
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Thu, 09-26-2013 - 8:52am

Anyone have any experience watching your wife or girlfriend with other men and/or women? Not actually joining in but watching in masturbating? Same goes for women watching their husband with other women....For me the guy has to be well hung and forceful. Would love to get some thoughts and share ideas. This  is my first post on her, so please be kind. Thanks

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Registered: 09-29-2013

my #1 fantasy.  for some time i have wanted to watch my wife with other men and or women.  she used to play with me through fantasies of this kind but now prefers not to.  would love to watch her do a threesome with a nice looking couple.   i could join or just watch and have wonderful fun either way.

 

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Registered: 11-18-2011
Tue, 10-01-2013 - 2:39pm
Sounds like it could be fun
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Registered: 11-01-2007
Thu, 11-21-2013 - 9:00pm

I love this fantasy as well.  My fantasy also includes situations where the other man is also very well endowed and this drives my wife crazy.  Ive never done this in real life (watch my wife with someone else) but have it but I have had a few situations where I've learned of past (or future in the case of ex-girlfirends) situations where its turned out that size really did matter to her (even though the entire time I was in that relationship I would always be reassured that my small size was 'fine'). 

The best time this happend with with my wife is as follows.  My wife is very pretty buy pretty typical in terms of her dress etc.  She probably only has had about average experience as far as sexual partners in concerned but she did have one partner who I knew she had had a lot more sex with than other gusy (including me) and I had an understanding (or feeling maybe) that the sex was much better with him.  One night she came home after being out with a friend who she hadnt seen in  a few years.  She lived out of town.  She rarely drinks but had that night and she was beyond tipsy.  I had gone to bed long befire and she had thought I was asleep.  They opened a bottle of wine in the living room and I overheard a conversation where her friend asked her about her ex's size (apparently this grifriends's new boyrfriend was large).  I overheard my wife go on in extreme detail about how huge her ex-boyfriend was, how incredible the sex was with him and how many orgasms he was able to give her.  She said it was the best sex, by far, in her life. Ive never been able to give her an orgasm so this both caused me incredible jealously but also turned me on like nothing else.  After about 15 minutes of this her freind asked if I was able to give her orgasms and my wife said no.  She then asked if I was small and, this time my wife said yes.  I couldnt see them (just hear them) but then I think she asked my size which I beleive she showed her ( she had asked how larger her ex was earlier, again I could only hear her but I heard the shock and gasps).  All I need to do is just think about this scenario and I go crazy.,  I could easily explain this story in far more detrail but I think itd be inappropriate for this site.

I have a few scenarios like this from other ex-girlfriends as well.  Probably the other best one was with my first serious girfriend in university.  Again, it would probably be too graphic for this site. 

If anyone wants to email further about this please reply or email me gmordowntown@yahoo.ca

Gavin

 

 

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Registered: 11-21-2013

What s funny and stupid work.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 12-06-2013 - 11:42am

What is that supposed to mean?



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Registered: 08-01-2006

Lots of men have the fantasy of seeing their partner with another man. If you have a partner, have you talked to her about this?

LuvstowatchChicago wrote:
<p>Anyone have any experience watching your wife or girlfriend with other men and/or women? Not actually joining in but watching in masturbating? Same goes for women watching their husband with other women....For me the guy has to be well hung and forceful. Would love to get some thoughts and share ideas. This  is my first post on her, so please be kind. Thanks</p>



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Registered: 07-03-2006
I have done several of these where the husband watched me with their wife. It is fun and hot.

 


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 11-01-2007
Tue, 12-10-2013 - 9:33pm

Hi NHgal, I'm not sure about the original poster but I have talked to my wife about this (mostly).  We have talked, on a handful of occasions, about her past with other larger guys who have been able to give her orgasms.  She'll mostly not talk about this subject or say downplay it but on a few occasions (like the rare time she drinks) she will open up.  Thats when she tells me a fair bit about things she's been able to do or was willing to do with former boyfriends. 

I think she doesnt like talking about this normally for a bunch of reasons, partly because she doent want me to feel bad and is embarrassed a bit about how promiscuous she was with her ex but also she admitted once that she doesn’t like to thin too much about it as it just causes her to become more frustrated and short tempered (ive seen this side to her!). 

As to talking about her actually being with another man we've kinda talked around that issue but a few times its come up 'as a fantasy' that we wouldn’t really do but its fun to think about.  Even then she almost always tells me that when she masturbates (when I know is very frequently even thought she downplays this) it is just a  nameless faceless man.  Again, on a handful of occasions she's admitted, or more appropriately let it slip that her fantasies are more about actual men.  Both men she's been with in the past or guys she interacts with now.  This really turns me on and she's just recently let me draw her into shares experiences when I describe her with one of the men I know she has a thing for.  We've just started this and it hasn’t gone very far but Im hopeful for the future. 

Gavin 

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Registered: 11-01-2007
Tue, 12-10-2013 - 9:39pm

Thats interesting.  How did you first get into this?   Do you find that its the girl or the man that wants to do it more?  Or perhaps both?  What are the couples like?  I mean do they seem normal, other than of course you're sleeping with the woman? 

Sorry for all the questions but Im very intriqued for a few reasons? 

 

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Registered: 01-14-2014
You are really fkd UP

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