My chocolate fantasy

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Registered: 02-13-2006
My chocolate fantasy
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Mon, 09-09-2013 - 9:00pm

I am worried that I will never ever get to carryout my sexual fantasy with anyone because I don't know how a man will react to what I want. It's nothing bad or dangerous BUT lets just say that for some reason some men don't like to be tied up! That really sucks...but anyways.. how does one go about gently bringing up a sexual fantasy that you would like to play out with someone?

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Wed, 09-11-2013 - 2:20pm

Go slow with your man.  Ease him into it and make sure he knows that you won't do anything that he is uncomfortable with.  Make sure he knows he can end the fantasy if he wants.  

May I ask exactly what you were thinking?

CH

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Registered: 02-13-2006
Thu, 09-12-2013 - 12:58pm

Well what I was thinking is that I would want to rent a nice hotel room perferably on a Sat...I would bring with me a huge plastic sheet to completely cover the bed..then I would have the man sit on the side of the bed..he would need to be a bald headed man..very important..because his head would be the canvass .I would then pour some warm milk chocolate over his bald head until  its cascading down his face and slowly lick it all off...then I would gently tie him to the bed after I have completely stripped him bare and proceed to pour more warm chocolate all over the rest of his body while massaging him...I don't think most men would have a problem with that...there is more to it but you get the point  :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2002
Thu, 09-12-2013 - 2:05pm

I wouldn't have any problems except that I am not bald ....

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 12-06-2013 - 11:40am

Do you currently have a man in your life? If so, ask him if and what his fantasies are and then you can relate yours. It's best to talk about things before just springing it on someone.



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