Need Advice to make it very Erotic

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Registered: 12-28-2007
Need Advice to make it very Erotic
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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 6:30pm

Hi, I have thought about giving my man instrutions for things he may need to pick up before a special night that I have planned. I thought it would be kinky to tell him he has to pick up some items which he will have no idea what I have planned to do with them. For example I saw on a movie where the guy told the woman specific instrutions on what to pick up at the grocery store , I even remember him saying olilves and the woman had no idea what they were for which made the anticipation so fun. I have it planned to play music blindfold him undress him use ice have him slip into silk boxers. I want to either give him clues or have him pick up something very crazy that he would have no idea what I was going to do with the item. Can you think of anyting or how I could make leading up to the night more exciting with the suspense ? Thanks so much I am quite consertive and want to do it right. lol


Thanks


Jill

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Registered: 06-03-2008
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 6:35pm
1. Economy size can of Crisco
2. Baby Oil(scented if possible)
3. Tennis Balls(two cans)
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 1:18am
A leather riding crop and a mouse trap might pique his interest. I'm not quite sure what to do with the mouse trap but it should certainly get his attention.
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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 7:21am

Thank You but what do

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 8:40am

Mother, throw out the conservativeness in you, at least in the bedroom.You are a woman, his best friend, his wife, and his lover!


Tell him you are making him a special desert.YOU!


Grapes,Apples,Strawberries,Honey,Whip Cream,Chocolate Kisses,White wine, it will go with all the fruit better. Take out food, Thai, or pizza, batteries for any toys you may have.


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Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 5:55pm
hehehehe...a mouse trap...now THAT will get him thinking...hehehe
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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 7:20pm

Thanks for the ideas... the kinkier the better lol. I had a plan that when he came in I would bring out a blind fold put it on him and play the song by Joe Cocker Leave your hat on and I could slowly strip him down. I have some erotic music one song called erotica its pretty intense wow I was surprised when I heard it. I thought I would then have him lay on the bed and tease his senses with massage.... ice and maybe some warm stones I have seen those not sure if I can find them in time. I just hope he doesnt think the erotic music is strange, it kinda sounds porn like but that makes it exciting I think. I love the ideas that you are giving me here I think I will add some of them to my plan. Keep um comming lol


thanks again


Jill


PS let me know what you think

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 11:17pm

Since Motherandwife said she's very conservative I wanted to steer clear of anything like an empty toilet paper roll and a gerbil.

Not to be combined with the mouse trap!

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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 11:34pm


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Fri, 06-20-2008 - 10:34am

Thanks for your ideas you are GOOD ! LoL I appreciate it ! What do you think would be a good order ? Should I undresss him while the song is on ? I want to incorporate silk boxers into it but not sure how to not look foolish after I undress him then dress him back up lol I wont see him until he gets here on Sat night so no way of having him put them on first. Also can you think of something I could have him pick up that he would have no idea what I would do with it ? But something I could use in a surprise way. I have thought of whip cream, ice, wine but I am sure he would know what my plans were for them. But one little mystery thing that he could be responsible for would be hot. Oh back to the strip thing .... should I take " our " clothes off to the song before I blind fold him ? thats a dumb question lol but

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 12:13pm

Mottherandwife..

I would have several songs cued up a CD if you can, maybe burn some songs to a cd that you like. I think it will take some time to undress him if you do a strip tease.If you do a strip tease he is not allowed to touch you, you can touch him.Those are the rules..ok. So you strip and tease him and undress him.Make it last 3-4 songs maybe. The first song is just a tease, the last few songs more and more clothes come off. After you have him undressed then pull out the boxers you want to put him in,( is that what you are wanitg to do) Don't worry about being silly looking,it is just the two of you having fun ok.Dont sweat it!

As for picking something up at the store to use as a suprise.That depends on how you want to incorporate it into your strip tease show, or wilit be used for sex. Lets say a banana and chocolate syrup. Use your imagination on that one ok!! Tell him it is for desert...Pour the syrup on the banana and lick, suck banana in a nice erotic wicked way!!!

As for the blind fold, maybe after put the blind fold on after your clothes are off. Blind fold him thentease him,light caress his body with your finger tips, drag your fingernails across his back, sit on his lap, breath in his ear. Give him a taste of what he is going to get, but not a full taste.Share the bananas with him, put chocolate syrup on your body and have him lick it off...Also try to have some music on the whole time...you could google songs to strip by or songs to have sex by and I am sure you can get some off of somepay sites to burn for your evening.

Ok ok I am getting excited here...

Good luck, feel free to ask me anything ok?

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the thingsyou didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bow lines.Sail away from the safe harbor.Catch the trade winds in your
sails.Explore. Dream.Discover" ...

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