New and want to try a 3sum or 4sum...

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Registered: 12-15-2003
New and want to try a 3sum or 4sum...
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Mon, 12-08-2008 - 11:39pm

hi im new im 31yo and married to a great guy....

~k

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 1:54am
I havent had any threesomes or foursomes so I cant help you. I'm sure drinking a bit will relax you but just dont drink too much.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 2:20am

Your treading on very dangerous ground if you really love your H. Suggest you try and spice up your sex life with H before going the route you're talking about. If you're so inclined talk to him about an FMF.


DD

"When it's going good,keep it going!"


"Live today like there's no tomorrow!"


"Take can't and quit out of your dictionary until you give it 110%. There's no shame in failing. The shame is not trying."


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2006
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 8:08am

Hi there and welcome to the boards!


You've divulged alot of information in a few short sentances there lol, but the thing that stuck out to me is that you think you'll feel uncomfortable at first in this situation. Perhaps looking to why you feel this way might

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 8:20am

Hi and welcome kimmie. Nice to meet you. Stick around and jump in anytime. No need to be shy, the people here are great and non-judgemental.


You've gotten some good advice. I'm a little confused and have a few questions. You're married to a great guy and you have a BF? Does your husband know about him? If your nervous about this 3 or 4-some, don't do it. You need to feel completely comfortable with it. Have you talked about any rules? How would your husband feel if he found out about all this? Have you tried talking to your husband first about trying different things?




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Registered: 04-20-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 8:29am

Good Morning Ladies! :-)


DD

"When it's going good,keep it going!"


"Live today like there's no tomorrow!"


"Take can't and quit out of your dictionary until you give it 110%. There's no shame in failing. The shame is not trying."


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 9:23am
Good morning mister...



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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 11:18am

BL,should I have said girls? :-(


DD << ready for a devilish day. RU? :-))

"When it's going good,keep it going!"


"Live today like there's no tomorrow!"


"Take can't and quit out of your dictionary until you give it 110%. There's no shame in failing. The shame is not trying."


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 11:32am

Oh no, ladies is just fine.... That's what we are, and you're a mister...


Ummmm, not quite yet. Maybe once it stops snowing......




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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 11:39am

Excuses,Excuses! :-(


DD

"When it's going good,keep it going!"


"Live today like there's no tomorrow!"


"Take can't and quit out of your dictionary until you give it 110%. There's no shame in failing. The shame is not trying."


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 12:04pm




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