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| Fri, 10-17-2008 - 1:22pm |
Hello all! I found this MB kind of of a random search. I read some of what you guys have posted and I find myself both thankful to find what seems like a great on-line community and a little short of breath with some of the fantasies!! LOL
Honestly, this MB has restored my faith that men aren't the only one with libidos. I know that sounds terribly sexist, but the last relationships that I have been in have been very, well...dry. Sexual contact has largely only been like a charity event in my honor. Yeah, I know, why should I complain, right? If that is your response, then you are probably coming from a place where I can't really communicate with you about this. If you understand why thats a bad thing, then we can communicate, I guess.
I'm not a bad looking guy (by most accounts), I'm a gentleman, I'm clean cut, I'm pretty intelligent, I'm in good shape, etc. I enjoy cooking, reading, music, sports, etc. I don't think I'm too bad in the sack. I enjoy giving a woman oral sex, I generally keep an erection after my first orgasm. I'm very patient and try to be very generous as a lover and as a human being, in general.
So, here is my fantasy, at the moment:
To find some one with desire. Honestly, I'm not looking for any sort of relationship or anything like that, at this point. I'm pretty frustrated with that search. I want simply to be the object of, and be the answer to, and the satisfaction of someone's desires.
I'd love to hear feedback. Either here, or in my regular email at seekingwisdom3333@yahoo.com
Thanks for letting me join you here!!

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Lothiriel
Our psychological reality, which lies below the surface, frightens us because it endlessly surprises us and drives us in a direction which society's rules and organizations define as wrong or dangerous
~Anais Nin
Lothiriel
Our psychological reality, which lies below the surface, frightens us because it endlessly surprises us and drives us in a direction which society's rules and organizations define as wrong or dangerous
~Anais Nin
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I must go back to Imeem and look at those playlists
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hi guy- welcome! thanks for stumbling upon us, and feel free to talk to us about anything- we're all ears, and everyone is uber cool.
i too have a super high libido, and have found a SO with the same, so i'm all good, but i have been in a high/low relationship, and it totally sucks- feels like you have a problem just to want sex, which is not the case at all. ugh- i've gotten the charity thing too...usually is preceded by a groan, and an "aww, ok"...LOL.
you sound like an awesome guy, so don't give up on your search. have you tried adult match websites (match.com but for encounters)? you might find women there who are more sexually adventurous- who knows...a couple of flings might make you feel better about things!
being the answer to, and object of someone's desires...have you ever looked into BDSM? if not, it might be something to check out...not sure if you'd be into a dom or sub role, but desire is totally the name of the game in that particular sexual experience.
thanks so much for stopping by- i look forward to seeing you around the board!
Hey ST...I love that song!
Great "work out" song!
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