Open Idea Thread

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-22-2008
Open Idea Thread
83
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 2:18pm
I am running out of Ideas to reach our goal.
Born to Live.

 

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 8:55am
I know the feeling im dreading next week my self. Come get away and stay here for a while.
Photobucket








iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 9:11am
take care and best wishes to your grandma
Photobucket








iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 10:03am

Don't you know you're not supposed to argue with gramma... Call her and tell her how much you love her.


{{{{{HUGS}}}}}



28999825.jpg picture by nhgal2006

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 12:14pm
thanks missy! greatly appreciated. totally hanging here to hide from reality LOL.
aalisig
aalisig
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 12:18pm
I know- ugh she just....sometimes she can be REALLY hurtful! She disapproved with the way I've been living my life since like college, and would turn me away from visiting her, would refuse to call me or respond to holiday cards and such...just recently she scoffed when she found out I was preggers (I'm "young", and unmarried), and didn't talk to me my whole pregnancy. Right before all this happened, I had resolved just to let the negativity go and talk to her when she was ready to love unconditionally...now that she's sick, I feel bad for not having talked to her in so long...UGH!
aalisig
aalisig
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 12:23pm
i know that feeling. I think we are going to have a party next week, you will have to come join in.
Photobucket








iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2008
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 12:34pm

Hi sistah....


I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother.


IMO...I think you should put what has happened in the past behind you...all the hurtful, negative things that she has said and let it go.

 



  


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 1:19pm
Please don't feel bad. I'm sure it was nothing that you did. You know, old people are just set in their ways. Sometimes you just gotta bite your tongue and let it go.



28999825.jpg picture by nhgal2006

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 1:31pm
Thanks- I agree. I'm going to spend the day with her tomorrow, and have resolved to forgive and forget. I fear we don't have much time left together, and I want her to leave us with pleasant memories, if she has to go. Thank you for your insight, gal!
aalisig
aalisig
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2008
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 2:11pm
Thanks, BL. I agree, and I will.
aalisig
aalisig

Pages