opinions, please

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Registered: 03-24-2007
opinions, please
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Tue, 08-12-2008 - 10:47am
ok so this is like something I've never ever never told anyone. I'm completely straight and in my day to day life I don't find women to be sexually attractive at all, but if I watch girl on girl porn its rediculous the affect is has on me. So then sometimes while I'm with my boyfriend I also think of myself doing nasty things with girls and it really turns me on...so what gives? Of course I'm freakin that maybe I could have these bisexual tendencies but then again , I dunno...what do u think?
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 11:00am
its natural. It does not mean your bi. Its a normal thing. Most women have those fantasies. Its what you do with your fantasies that determine other things....
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Registered: 07-26-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 4:38pm

been there, chica. i've had those thoughts as well- i do find the female body to be attractive, but am not sexually attracted to girlies either. i have imagined getting it on with like a tranny (male parts, female form), and would probably act on it if given the chance (LOL), but i don't think your fantasies make you bi, just sexually curious.

to further explore, i'd suggest you check out Second Life- http://www.secondlife.com , a virtual world (chat room on crack) where you can test out your fantasies with other virtual manifestations of real people to see if its something you'd enjoy in real life. on there i've had sex with a beast, a girl, and a tranny...all good times. LOL

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sarcasmiconseptth_leanne91
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Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 6:28pm
You could be bi-curious or bisexual.
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Registered: 12-26-2007
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 11:29pm
Like you i am completely strait but if i watch a porn the woman on woman parts are the only thing that turns me on. Im not saying that i would never have a FMF 3some, i dont know. But its just something about seeing 2 woman pleasing each other that drives me crazy. Dont worry about it, it does not mean that you are bi like everyone else said its natural, woman are beautiful beings and there is nothing wrong with feeling that way.
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Registered: 06-13-2008
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 2:50pm
I think that if you gave your bf even the tiniest inkling of your fantasies, he'd be wildly turned on, and you two might have a whole new world of fun using that fantasy during sex. Men seem almost always to find thoughts of 2 women sexy, so if you both find the same thoughts sexy, how great is that?!