Planning my Saturday night of seduction...

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Registered: 04-16-2011
Planning my Saturday night of seduction...
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Thu, 06-02-2011 - 9:56pm

Hey everyone! I'm writing here to jot down my plans for my Saturday night...I've recently bought some new lingerie and my boyfriend and I are planning a night in. I told him tonight that I'm making dinner and taking care of planning the rest.

I think I'll start by slipping into my new leopard print slip I just bought from Victoria's Secret while I make dinner. I'm going to do the whole candles and ambient music bit, and get the wine going. After dinner...and I may make the meal last awhile...(5 courses, anyone?), I think I'll put on the movie 9 1/2 weeks and let my hands wander over his body during the steamy scenes. And then, if I can get up enough courage, I may have on hand a new glass dildo that we've looked at a few times in a shop down the street. It's beautiful and created by an amazing artist. My boyfriend has told me that he wants to watch me get off while riding a toy. I've used a vibrator in front of him a few times, but I've only described how I ride a dildo when I'm by myself. Once we get going ourselves from watching the movie, maybe I'll bring out my new toy and just let him watch for a bit.

What do you think? Any meal suggestions? Any suggestions about how to walk into that store and just buy the damn thing? LOL!!

Can't WAIT for Saturday night...

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Registered: 01-22-2008
Thu, 06-02-2011 - 10:07pm

What do you think? So far,

Born to Live.

 

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Registered: 01-03-2007
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 9:47am

What do I think? I think I need to hire you to give lessons to my DW!

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Registered: 11-15-2009
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 1:49pm
I think this is quite a great night you have planned! I love a good solo show from my wife - although never riding a dildo (adding to bucket list now)

Meal - steak always woos me :)

Buying - go in like you own the place, so no hoods or big sunglasses like you're Jackie Kennedy. I always went in like a man who knows why im there and doesn't care if people know I'm picking up a dildo or vibrator. thankfully the people working there usually know why you're there :). Like amante said, they are usually very nice and care about your sexual experiences

Let us know how it goes! And have fun ;)
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Registered: 04-26-2011
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 4:37pm
I've bought something that at least feels more emberassing (butt plug) and had to ask a cute young gal for "assistance". I was emberassed and nervous, and watching hwo she reacted I realized that as far as she was concerned, I could have been asking her about printer cartridges and paper towels or something. I was just determined that I'd go finally do it. I kept the small talk simple, asked the necessary questions, and was polite, and I don't think , honestly, she'd have remembered me being there if you asked a week later.

Only think I can tell you is pretend you already bought it and they are just holding it for you. :)
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Registered: 01-22-2009
Sat, 06-04-2011 - 10:10pm

Oh I wish I could have posted earlier.

With my DH I have found, starting fully dressed really goes well.

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Registered: 04-26-2011
Sun, 06-05-2011 - 12:11am
Wow. I thought I had some good ideas, but you hit a grand slam there. Well done, and you have a very lucky spouse!
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Mon, 06-06-2011 - 7:34am
niagoddess32 wrote:

Mrs P

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Registered: 04-16-2011
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 12:06am

Hey hey!