poll-am I oversensitive about the word .

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Registered: 04-25-2008
poll-am I oversensitive about the word .
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Fri, 04-25-2008 - 12:16pm

I have recently considered exploring an avenue of my sexuality outside my relationship-there are some things that I really want to experience that my husband is not open to.

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Fri, 04-25-2008 - 5:13pm
My fiancee (been together just over three and a half years) loves being called a slut leading up to the act, and especially during the act, it turns her on. If I'm giving her some tender attention and she wants it rough, she'll tell me she's a "dirty little ***slut" and
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Registered: 03-22-2008
Sat, 04-26-2008 - 4:49pm

My first time posting so if I mess it horribly, forgive me.


I know what you mean but the term slut.

 

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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 5:33pm

Hi and welcome killy. Nice to meet you. Stick around and jump in anytime. There are some great people here.




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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 7:31pm
It all depends on who is calling me a slut...if it's a man I am about to show my sexual desire to..I am
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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 7:45pm

I personally like being called a slut (as well as several other dirty names) in the bedroom.
It's a term of affection coming from my current partner.

If someone calls me that outside the bedroom, I just say, "Why, yes, I AM a slut and PROUD of it!"

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sat, 04-26-2008 - 8:08pm

If someone calls me that outside the bedroom, I just say, "Why, yes, I AM a slut and PROUD of it!"


I hear ya there! My sentiments exactly!

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 1:47pm

I dislike the word slut immensely. The negative connotation negates any tittilating properties it might hold for me.


I cannot embrace a word created soley as a judgement, an insult and a negative label for a woman who enjoys sex. I have too much self respect. That's just me.


A woman who enjoys sex, revels in her sensuality, should never be called any name. Slut, whore, whatever name one chooses, implies there is something wrong with her even if she does not think this herself. To me being

Mrs P

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 9:00pm
Different strokes for different folks I guess...nothing turns me on more than hearing him growl the C-word in my ear!
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Registered: 02-17-2008
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 9:11pm

Perception is reality to each of us differently.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sun, 04-27-2008 - 9:59pm

Different strokes indeed thestral.


The beauty of it is we get to decide how we wish to be treated. Your getting turned on by a word you enjoy is just as important as my not wanting to hear it.


Sexuality is a wondrous pallate of many desires and choices. No one should ever dictate to us what is right for each of us.


Indeed!













Mrs P