Q for the gals - BAD BOYS
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Q for the gals - BAD BOYS
| Fri, 05-09-2008 - 7:38am |
So I've got a platonic female friend that I pal around with. We dated a couple of times and have been "friends" since then. We sit and chat about things and even though she's a 31 year old mother of a 4 y.o., she STILL wants to find herself a "bad boy" - that's her type even though (from the sounds of things) they keep breaking her heart and treating her badly. What is it with the bad boys for you gals AND at what point in your life do you start passing them up for someone nice?



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I tell you myself, finding out on this board that are such things as HL women have opened my eyes and made me more able to be open .....men are always taught that women dont want sex, etc...so sometimes its hard for us to open up to women.
Male,
Seeming as we are both HL men with LL ladies, I think we both have the same playbook.
It is hard to keep getting shut down when you try to be open. Thats why I think this board is a slice of heaven. It allows myself to post what I feel without feeling like I am going to get shut down. I hope I hadn't offended anyone yet, but I am learning that I can say what I think and by posting here, with the right person I would be able to translate that into RL.
FG
I have yet to be shut down yet on this or any of the other boards.What is a strange kind of funny here is that there are theses HL women here who have some very vivid sexual desires who only get shut down by their LL hubby. How we wish theses HL women were in our RL. We wonder and ask, where were you when I was single and dating. Then there is us HL men who get shut down by the wife. Just like some of the women on here
How the other spouse has no idea what they are missing. But I guess theses LL partners dont care what they are missing, becuase it is not important to them. Some of theses LL people just seem to be letting life pass them by, go to work,eat, sleep, pay bills and get up and do it all over again. What is upseeting is when yuo try to talk to said spouse about it they get uspet and claim you want sex all the time.For example. We had sex on a Saturday night, I wanted to have sex again on a Wednesday night. She argued with me that we had sex on Monday night. That it was too soon and that we did not need to have sex so soon from having it.She was dead set that we had sex on Monday night when in fact we had sex on Saturday night.It took me about 15 minutes to give her a play by play description of what and how we had sex on Saturday night. Then she realized that she was wrong.But it did not change the fact that we got to have sex. She said " we dont need to have sex that often, it is just not necessary" Like WTF! I cannot even tell you how that made me feel.
opps sorry for the tirade.
Lets get back to the BB syndrome
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Male,
I was saying the ladies on the board have been open...I dont think we have been shut down. Where we have been shut down is
I just have to say this, I'd like to say a lot more but I will be nice. Since when, should you have to argue to have sex when you are married? Wouldn't you think the person you are married to would want to share a sexual experiance with you? I just don't get it. Sex is how we keep the physical and emotinal part of our marriages strong, no wonder so many marriages end in divorce.
I have tried so many times to put into words how much I crave the physical and emotinal connection of sex, almost like a person needs food but yet hubby could care less.
Sometimes I think it's just a glitch. I was trying to post a reply the other day on LTAS, with some food pictures and it kept telling me I had bad words in it. I didn't. I had to cancel the whole message, log out and start all over.
Did you reply back and ask what was wrong with it?
Many of us know the MML board as well....
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