Q for the gals - BAD BOYS

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Q for the gals - BAD BOYS
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Fri, 05-09-2008 - 7:38am
So I've got a platonic female friend that I pal around with. We dated a couple of times and have been "friends" since then. We sit and chat about things and even though she's a 31 year old mother of a 4 y.o., she STILL wants to find herself a "bad boy" - that's her type even though (from the sounds of things) they keep breaking her heart and treating her badly. What is it with the bad boys for you gals AND at what point in your life do you start passing them up for someone nice?
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Registered: 09-27-2005
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:34am


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Registered: 05-08-2008
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:52am

Characteristics...hard to describe...everyone is deviant in his or her own way.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 11:35am
Then there will be no problem once we're all living together!

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 11:41am


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Registered: 08-03-2003
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:38pm

Well Nh, first sorry to hear about your sexless marriage. I haven't had sex with my hubby in 6 years. Our issue is relationship even though we are good friends we have lots of issues. So the other areas of you marriage are good, is that good enough for you? It seems like you would have to figure out if it is an ok trade off for youself. What I mean is, haveing an emotional connection is that enough even though you are not having sex. Have you ever had an affair or would you?


I find it hard to believe that a doctor would tell a patient that. Is there anything your hubby can do to help out with the urges?


My heart really goes out to you. Big Hugs

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:41pm

Male the sad thing is she is missing out on something wonderful, ok all who are thinking bad no I have not even met Male in person I am just saying!


I hope she will realize

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:47pm

I saw a t-shirt today that said


NO JOB


NO MONEY


NO CAR


BUT I PLAY IN A BAND!


I almost


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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 7:52pm

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 8:00pm

Another Funny thing is she asked me last night how come I have not asked for sex for the past week or so. I said, why, just to hear you say "NO!" She just said Oh! I think it is good that you said that to her! And by her reply maybe she doesn't realize this is an issue. So many times when a couple has been married for a long period we do take eachother for granted. Maybe she thinks that you will always be there and you will always be the one who asks for sex?


Ok I have to be honest and this is only my opinion and don't get mad! If she really loves sex as much as she says (when you do have it) why on earth would she be willing to walk away and

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 8:09pm
And you didn't buy it? WHY?????!!!!!

 



  


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