Q for the gals - BAD BOYS

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Q for the gals - BAD BOYS
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Fri, 05-09-2008 - 7:38am
So I've got a platonic female friend that I pal around with. We dated a couple of times and have been "friends" since then. We sit and chat about things and even though she's a 31 year old mother of a 4 y.o., she STILL wants to find herself a "bad boy" - that's her type even though (from the sounds of things) they keep breaking her heart and treating her badly. What is it with the bad boys for you gals AND at what point in your life do you start passing them up for someone nice?
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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 7:54pm

treat her with respect outside the bedroom and help bring out the slut inside her inside it.


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Registered: 02-17-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:08pm
It could be any and all of the above -- encourage her to take off her panties when you're at dinner, have sex when you're out to dinner with friends in the neighbor's yard, etc., etc., etc...

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Registered: 04-29-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:18pm

I always used to think I wanted the bad boy. But then I realised one day what I really wanted!


It's exactly like goddess_katsmom says. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. Well, I want a guy who is nice, sweet, funny, polite

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:25pm

BTW it's Kat or DBK....


It's part of the maturity process to understand what it is that trips our attraction triggers.

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Registered: 04-29-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:32pm

godddess_katsmom I totally agree with your treat her with respect outside the bedroom and bring out her inner slut IN the bedroom!!


And that's what I want my Fiance to do!! That's why I signed up for that guy David's emails. I get my fiance to read them. We are still testing the waters with them, but so far, I've liked what I've read! I wish it didn't sound so much like a testinomial from a customer, but I just got an email today from him, or actually I guess you could call it a newsletter, and I just get soo excited and turned on by what he has to say.


Bad boys make you feel like you have no inhibations. Especially in the bedroom. Like they are up for anything. And they are incredibly masculine, and I have to admit that there is just this hugely feminine part of me that wants to be overcome by that masculinity! They also tend to make you (or from my own personal experience at least) won't be judged in the bedroom if you ask for something that's normally taboo.


this is all stuff I'm trying to get across to my fiance. Like I've said in my prior posts, I love our sex life, but there really is this inner hunger that's looking for something a little bit more!

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Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:32pm
Well, I can tell you this woman doesn't want someone like either one of them.... Just not my type. I like a little bit of badness. Hey, don't we all....

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:34pm
Well said, DBK! {clapping}

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 8:38pm
{{{{Bowing}}}}

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:14pm
You've got a good resource in David's materials.

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:24pm

You know I think I was raised up in a F-up life. I can remember listening to what all the women in my childhood told me was wrong about men. So I always tried to do the right thing. Im now married to a woman who is LL and Im HL.


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