Q for the gals - BAD BOYS

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Q for the gals - BAD BOYS
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Fri, 05-09-2008 - 7:38am
So I've got a platonic female friend that I pal around with. We dated a couple of times and have been "friends" since then. We sit and chat about things and even though she's a 31 year old mother of a 4 y.o., she STILL wants to find herself a "bad boy" - that's her type even though (from the sounds of things) they keep breaking her heart and treating her badly. What is it with the bad boys for you gals AND at what point in your life do you start passing them up for someone nice?
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Registered: 02-17-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:32pm

Okay, Male, we will call you Bad Boy all you'd like.

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:42pm

I like to think I'm a BB no, not (bitch boy)


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Registered: 02-04-2007
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 10:08pm
I have never been into the bad boy type. It is more fun awakening the bad boy from within the good boy while in the bedroom!!! ;)
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Registered: 04-29-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 10:30pm

Kat, i will try to keep you posted! haha as I'm new to the message board thing, sometimes I post, and then go a couple of days and all the sudden it's like " ohh yea! i posted on a message board and maybe someone had something to say to me or ask me from my post! i should check!" DUH!


But yea, I have yet to buy david's books but I'm most likely going to from what I've seen so far. I swear it should be a new movement for men!!! If it is really as good as he says it can be, then this when boys turn like, 16, they should be ushered out of the classroom for a special BOYS ONLY health class and be taught this material!!!!


and MALE, yes you definitely seem the bad boy!! haha I sometimes can understand a ML relataionship, although not entirely as most people say I'm too young. BUT my fiance works construction, and being outside all day in the heat and doing very physical stuff, he comes home EXHAUSTED! I on the other hand, see him all dirty in his ripped jeans and dirty shirts ( or no shirt) and boots and want to jump him the second hes opened the truck door! but most of the time it doesnt happen because, like I said, he's soo exhausted! and I feel bad asking for sex when I know how hard he's worked physically all day!


But again, when I see him in all his dirty sweaty glory, to me he just looks like THE bad boy! The masculine, I don't care what I look like, or how dirty I am bad boy! And there in lies the physical aspect of it for me!

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Sat, 05-10-2008 - 6:25am

I hear ya, I'm a nice normal, sweet, funny/quirky guy most of the time, but for some (like my platonic friend) it would be a surprise that I get rather....uhhh....frisky in bed :-(

Oh, if hottie was here she'd know what to tell me :-) LOL

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 8:35am

Jeff,


Part of it is to show your BB (no, Male, that's not BITCH BOY, FTR) before you get to the bedroom to entice her...

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 8:36am

I think deep down women think we will be the one to change the BB. That we will be so spectacular that he will change and only want to be with us. A man that has been with a lot of women, sometimes we think he may know a few things and may be better in bed. The truth is, he is a selfish SOB and has never learned how to please a woman! Many times the appeal can be the hunt. That if a woman is sexy or special enough he will take notice and she will change him. Which in reality is never going to happen.


In my opinion being with a bad boy can be fun but the heart ach is not worth it. Deep down every woman wants to have some sort of emotinal connection that will never happen truly happen with a BB. A BB can make a woman feel younger, wild and carefree but also lonely, lacking and sad. I happen to marry my BB who turned out to be a nice guy fronting as a BB. Who knew, I guess in away even though he was a good boy deep down, I felt I had changed him and kept him from his evil ways. Now 19 years into it, he still has some BB traits.


I wonder if women who seek out these BB don't think they deserve love? Maybe they think deep down that a good guy is just too good for them?


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Sat, 05-10-2008 - 8:52am
Yeah, this one is 31 and I'm hoping she can get take off her bad boy goggles to let herself open up to "new" kinds of guys soon. We did date at one point (just a couple times) but she soon figured out I wasn't THAT TYPE and it's been all platonic since then. In the meantime I'm not getting too attached
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Registered: 08-03-2003
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 9:07am

Hey Jeff sounds like you were looking for my imput! This is what I have to say. Yes a woman really likes

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 2:30pm
Ok, so you've decided to definitely get a tattoo.. Do you know what you want? Why in Gods name do you want a piercing down there???

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