Queston about steping out on mate

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Queston about steping out on mate
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 12:48pm

For those of you have had an affair or would consider an affair this question is for you, Do you think you could have an affair that was just sexual with no emotions envolved?


If you had a person that you had sex with on a regular basis do you think you would develop an emotionl attachment?


Also if you ever did consider doing this would that mean that the love you once had for you mate had either gone away or was almost gone?


I believe for most women they try to have affairs but at some point emotions get involved. If they are married most would tell you they are no longer in love with their husbands.

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Registered: 03-17-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 10:14am

If you don't mind me asking galatea are you in a similar or some what similar situation?


Yes, puma my situation is very similar to yours.

 



  


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Registered: 05-31-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 10:36am
Thanks for the welcome... Much nicer than the ripping I just got from the guys. Oh well. I asked, they answered.
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Registered: 12-25-2006
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 10:41am

You are most welcome...I believe you will find the folks here to be relatively non-judgemental, accepting











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Registered: 04-26-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 10:46am

It is with a co-worker and

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 10:48am
I'm sorry, did I miss something? I've never known the people here to be judgmental of anything. But do remember that if you ask for answers, people will be very honest.

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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:00am

Hey there Hotness...


Ya know...there are people who can be in physical relationships without emotional attachment.

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Registered: 05-31-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:09am
Not on this board... I had asked something on one of the male forums, and I happened to mention my affair and a difference between my H and AP. Not such a smart move on my part. Apparently, they thought I was looking for sympathy, when all I wanted was an answer.
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Registered: 03-17-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:16am

But our encounters (which are far and few between) don't happen in the elevator.

 



  


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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:38am
Oh, ok... Stay here with us. We're nicer!

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Registered: 03-17-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:42am

I agree... we are nicer...


btw... love the new siggy!


one of my favorite sayings is..."suck it up" (the kids usually don't like when I say it though...lol)

 



  


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